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Is it a good thing to be pregnant at a really young age?

Everyone who I know who are like 15,16,17 seem to be pregnant and have babies. I'm nearly 18 and I had a pregnancy scare back in February when I was 17 and every time I've had sex I've not ended up pregnant :/ I really want a baby like now(Only a girl though!) so I can make her look really cute! but is it a bad thing that I'm 17 and I don't have a baby? I really want one! but I need to find the one first :(
 RnBStar13 posted il y a plus d’un an
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BabyBlud said:
Listen to me very carefully as i am a young mother myself. toi have your whole life ahead of you. toi need to get your school work finished, toi need to get your independence, your own home, a succesfull job and plenty (and i mean plenty) of money in the bank before toi even start THINKING of having a child.
Having a child is a wonderful experience, but sometimes it's better to wait then to rush things.
Taking care of a child is exhausting, mentally and physically. toi won't have time for your friends, ou to go out drinking with them, to go to the movies. toi won't be able to experiement with careers ou buy a car.
Your life, once toi have a child, is lonliness, isolation, dirty nappies, feeds at ungodly hours, depression, sticky fingers, laundry, trying to keep your home, yourself and your baby clean and it goes on and on and on and on and on.
Once toi have a child..YOUR LIFE IS OVER!!!
toi do not have a life. Your life, not revolves around that child and there is nothing toi can do about it.

If you're not financially stable how will toi afford all the things toi need? Nappies, baby clothes, formula, medicine for when they get sick?
If toi live with your parents how will they cope with a new baby in the house? How will the react, how will toi ever get your independence as toi will rely plus heavily on them?
If toi have your own accueil how are toi going to pay the bills if toi have no income? Even if toi go on welfare, that's hardly enough to pay gas, electricity, all your taxes your liable to pay, your rent/mortgage etc. Having chilren is very expensive!

I would wait, if i were you.

And as for your commentaire about wanting just a girl (to make her look cute) What the hell?
That just proves to me that toi are too immature to care for a child as you're still a child yourself. toi don't have children 'just to make them look cute' that's what Barbie poupées are for.
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
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Agreed completely.:) That's exactly what my answer said. Teen moms never have time to do anything anymore par themselves and they don't even have jobs yet.
adultswimperson posted il y a plus d’un an
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agreed completely with toi
seki posted il y a plus d’un an
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Cinders said:
If the only reason toi want a baby is to "make her look really cute," toi are not ready to have a baby. And if toi only want a girl (for this reason), there's a 50% chance you'll be incredibly disappointed, and then who will do the 3:00AM feedings, doctors visits and vaccinations, baby-proofing, ou tolerate the three-hour-"What-the-hell-do-you-want-baby-i've-done-everything" crying sessions?

Or... wait, would toi do that even for a "cute" girl child?

My conseil is, if toi want something to dress up and play with, get a kitten. If toi want to be entirely responsible for someone else's life and well-being and deal with the constant fear that toi are somehow screwing them up, then maybe you're ready for a kid.
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
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100% FTW Cinders
sesshyswind posted il y a plus d’un an
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Agreed!
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adultswimperson said:
WTF?
No it's not a good thing, toi have a whole life ahead of toi at that age and toi would rather spend time looking for a job and dropping out of school?
toi should wait until after your married in your 20's, I don't see what good it does for toi if toi got pregnant now, toi probably wouldn't be able to keep the baby without having money and it would be put up for adoption.
Plus doing this is also a big mistake.
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
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:( I would never put my child up for adoption! I don't believe in that! toi should always make a life time commitment to your baby, no matter what! and I have a job so I'm fine with money :)
RnBStar13 posted il y a plus d’un an
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tru i agree with toi
kaytiee posted il y a plus d’un an
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@giggitygoo, I wouldn't want to spend the rest of my young life taking care of a baby when I don't get to have fun anymore, obviously RnB isn't going to have time to do things she wants because she's to busy taking care of a child when she has to support it. @kaytiee, Thanks. ^_^
adultswimperson posted il y a plus d’un an
gigitygoo said:
Nope thats about the right age too have kids hell i have a kid and im 15 and wow thats sad im sorry toi can try a lot of things too make it happen but if toi want too talk in troène, privet then boîte mail me toi could try diffrent poesition and if that dont work than keep trying toi will have a kid
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
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Well I'm single at the moment :) so.... I need to find "the one"
RnBStar13 posted il y a plus d’un an
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sry im taken but i can still help toi
gigitygoo posted il y a plus d’un an
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no prob
gigitygoo posted il y a plus d’un an
mj4ever202 said:
Um no! toi need to go to college and get a job before toi have a child! Well, if toi adopt then it's a different story...
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kaytiee said:
its niva a good ou bad thing. however it is personnal choice and if toi want a baby then try for one. i am 14 and am planning to have a baby with my boyfrend at 16. i really want a babay but i have told my boyfrend that i am waiting until i am at least 16 so i can get my gcses. many peepel are against being a mom at a young age but i am not as it is personal choice and your own body. so good look and if toi want one dont let anyone stop you.! :) xxx
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thrillergirl18 said:
If your under 18 then your parents ou whoever your living with got the right to take the baby away from you. But if your 18 wait till toi get your High School diploma. If toi get pregnant while in school it won't be good at all and dropping out of school will be the worst thing anyone could ever do. This goes for everyone not trust you.
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Tailsprowerfox said:
NO sheesh diddnt ANY of toi dumb bimbo's learn ANYTHING in school???
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