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BabyBlud said:
Listen to me very carefully as i am a young mother myself. toi have your whole life ahead of you. toi need to get your school work finished, toi need to get your independence, your own home, a succesfull job and plenty (and i mean plenty) of money in the bank before toi even start THINKING of having a child. Having a child is a wonderful experience, but sometimes it's better to wait then to rush things. Taking care of a child is exhausting, mentally and physically. toi won't have time for your friends, ou to go out drinking with them, to go to the movies. toi won't be able to experiement with careers ou buy a car. Your life, once toi have a child, is lonliness, isolation, dirty nappies, feeds at ungodly hours, depression, sticky fingers, laundry, trying to keep your home, yourself and your baby clean and it goes on and on and on and on and on. Once toi have a child..YOUR LIFE IS OVER!!! toi do not have a life. Your life, not revolves around that child and there is nothing toi can do about it. If you're not financially stable how will toi afford all the things toi need? Nappies, baby clothes, formula, medicine for when they get sick? If toi live with your parents how will they cope with a new baby in the house? How will the react, how will toi ever get your independence as toi will rely plus heavily on them? If toi have your own accueil how are toi going to pay the bills if toi have no income? Even if toi go on welfare, that's hardly enough to pay gas, electricity, all your taxes your liable to pay, your rent/mortgage etc. Having chilren is very expensive! I would wait, if i were you. And as for your commentaire about wanting just a girl (to make her look cute) What the hell? That just proves to me that toi are too immature to care for a child as you're still a child yourself. toi don't have children 'just to make them look cute' that's what Barbie poupées are for.
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