Think
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Realization. Even though it may seem impossible, the truth is, nothing is impossible. If toi keep thinking it's impossible, then it will be. Have faith
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Analyze the situation. Create a liste of "pros" and "cons" to help toi better understand why you're seeking l’amour ou acceptance from this person.
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Don't worry about things toi can't help. Acknowledge the impossibility as something that is totally out of your hands (ex: marriage, age, sexuality, hang-ups) and know that if something is meant to be, it will be.
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Don't take it personally. Perceiving the situation as a personal attack, is not advised. There is no point par contemplating why. In fact, it may create a mysterious attraction to them therefore prolonging infatuation, not to mention causing toi a world of pain.
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Plan wisely. Set aside a time for any duration. par reflecting, not brooding, toi gain insight for your suivant possible crush.
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Admit toi have a crush. Allow yourself to feel it. If toi don't, toi are at risk for "Romeo and Juliet Syndrome". The forbidden l’amour possibility becomes plus attractive.
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Don't dwell. Instead, go out and make new friends, ou hang out with the old, But never be mean about them! It will only get back to them and then toi will have Lost a friend.
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déplacer on. Remember that it's not the end of the world. Someone else may share your feelings, but this specific person just wasn't the right one. Just remember that its a crush-no matter how strong.
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Mesmerizing. When toi start remembering good times toi had with your crush, immediately find something else to focus your energy and time on. Don't allow yourself to wallow in self pity for too long.
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Be honest. Tell them how toi feel. If toi find out that he ou she doesn't have any feelings for you, it will be easier for toi to get over it.
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Avoid anger. They didn't do anything wrong and getting angry is just going to push them further away and destroy your friendship. Come to terms with the fact that it isn't their fault they aren't attracted to toi that way. This is hard, but a few tears (or a few buckets of tears), a few chick-flicks and treats and a few peppy songs toi can dance to will keep toi on your feet.
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Keep in mind, if toi are madly and hopelessly in love/lust, be patient. Don't be too clingy, but continue on as normal, being your wonderful self and montrer him/her how awesome toi are. He/She might just realize one jour that they have been blind this whole time and confess their love; after all, l’amour is just friendship on fire.
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Understand that if all else fails, think about how devastated toi would be if the two of toi started dating/getting serious and then broke up. Think of that when toi get that feeling. Keep in mind how important your friendship is.
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It's not healthy to keep hoping they will one jour feel the same. Try to emancipate yourself from them for a while so that toi can rid yourself of your feelings for them, because if toi don't, the time toi spend around them will be tense and bittersweet.
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Avoid thinking about them. You'll only feel worse if toi do. Meet new people, talk to your friends.
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Instead of fantasizing about how great things could be with your crush, pick someone else. Imagine how great things would be with them. You've probably been doing this with your crush for so long that imagining being in a relationship with someone new might be the breath of fresh air toi need to get the ball rolling on getting over him/her.
Act
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Maintain some type of distance. While being close to someone may stir emotions, avoiding someone who is regularly seen definitely will. If the person is close, either request "space" ou continue normal activities. If the person is not, keep a distance, but not a "duck-and-cover" type of avoidance.
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Spend time with the person. toi will see their negative qualities, which will be beyond what toi can ours if you're not meant to be.
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Look at them closely. Find the physical flaws. And then think... "He/She's not that hot! What am I thinking?!" And find someone that toi can get, and still be Friends with your crush.
4.    4
Stop fantasizing about them! They aren't important. They don't define who toi are, that's your job.
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Remember that this person is not the end of the world. Someone else may feel the way toi do about YOU. Just remember that its a crush--no matter how strong.
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Focus on the trait of theirs that is your least favorite. That means, if he is so perverted and toi don't like it, ou if she is self-centered and toi can't stand it, focus. It will allow toi to see him/her as what he/she is, as well as get toi over him/her.
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When toi start remembering a good time toi had with your crush, convince yourself it wasn't all that great par remembering a much better time toi experienced with someone else.
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Ask yourself a reason why toi want to get over it. Are toi married/in another relationship? If so, it's easier to prioritize if toi think it through.
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Try to minimize contact with your crush.
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Focus on your other interests.
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Go to the gym and work out. Get your mind off of it and feel better about yourself.
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Find comic relief. See the humorous side to things, read comic livres ou deep thoughts before toi go to bed.
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Make an exciting change to make yourself feel sexy. Treat your self to a hair-cut, ou a new outfit. Make yourself feel confident.
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traverser, croix out ou erase his/her name anywhere toi might have written it (e.g your notebook, your textbook, the mur of your bedroom, etc.)
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Avoid all eye contact with them and try not to look longingly at his/her nose. You'll be plus likely to get over the crush if toi aren't always staring at him/her.
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Act a bit plus unpleasant around them than your usual temperament. They may act unpleasant back and won't seem as attractive to you, but be warned, toi may lose out on a relationship with another person if toi are too mean.
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toi know toi will see this person again. They are your best friend and toi don't want to lose them. Try to your time with them and start spending time with other people (namely ones of the sex toi are attracted to). Start dating and don't feel obligated to your best friend, they're not dating you.
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Learn from the experience and come out stronger.
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Accept! Always remember that the toughest part will be to observe your best friend be normal around toi while toi could struggle to do so. There is no way around it but to accept that everything cannot possibly be reciprocated.
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Try falling out of love/lust. Make lists of all the things that go against being attracted to him/her - l’amour is blind, try to voluntarily open your eyes.
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Don't let them see how upset toi are. If they know, it'll only make them feel bad and they might start avoiding you. Act like nothing happened and maybe mention another person toi think is hot. If they start liking toi back, then that's great. Hope it all works out. If they don't, then just keep this up until toi find someone else.
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Consider the possibility of letting them see toi with someone else. Act nicely. Sometimes people don't realize what they could have had until the opportunity is gone. If they don't start liking toi back at this point, it's really time to stop crushing on them and meet new people.
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Remember that if they liked toi but changed their minds at the last minute, toi shouldn't get angry ou blame things on them. Your friendship should be strong enough to not let something like that keep a good thing down.
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Accept it. Whether your window of opportunity came and went, ou they're just not into you, acknowledge the reality of the situation. Tell yourself the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth.
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déplacer on. Make a promise to yourself to get over it. If you're lire this article, you're ready to take this step, so just do it.
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Reassure yourself. Look in the mirror every morning, smile, and tell yourself, "You're worth it." Really mean it. toi didn't do anything wrong, and right now there's someone else out there for you. And it always helps to remind yourself that they are the ones that are going to be missing out on you.
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Maintain your decision. If toi find yourself slipping, remember the promise toi made to yourself.
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Associate. If and when toi catch yourself thinking about your crush, pick out something about them that toi dislike, and focus on it. Be honest. toi may have built a fantaisie of them in your head, but in reality they're not as great.
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Distract yourself. Go out with your Friends and have fun. Meet new people. Find a montrer ou a game to immerse yourself in. Keep yourself busy and happy.
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Take care of yourself. Keep well-groomed and put on your best clothes. It will do wonders for your self-esteem. Remember step three.
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Find someone else. It can be difficult to get over someone if you're sitting there alone on Friday nights. Instead, call up that girl/guy toi have History class with who always smiles at you.
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Live life. You're a great person and he/she was a fool not to see that. Before toi know it you'll be back on track.
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Get it out. A good cry always helps. just let your feelings pour out and before toi know it. He/She will be just a thing of the past.
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If toi can not get over it try to do the stuff toi l’amour like video games tv lire ou whatever. Think about upcoming events that will make toi happy. This may seem weird but it works 91 percent of the time


Tips
•    Really focus on trying to find another boy/girl that you're interested in. It's hard to stop loving him/her when they're the only one toi see. But don't neglect your best friend.
•    If toi are upset after finding out they don't like you, talk to someone toi trust, like a friend ou counselor, about how toi feel. Tell them how you're hurt and ask for advice. Holding things in makes toi depressed, and that can make everything much worse.
•    Tell him/her as soon as possible that toi have feelings for them. Waiting only makes it worse. It's not fair to toi to have to keep it in, and toi can't get over them until toi know they don't feel the same way. It'll get worse before it gets better, but it will get better. And who knows? They may even confess to liking toi back!
•    Still be Friends with them. It's not fun to lose a friend because of a problem in a relationship and it's even harder with a best friend. Once toi do get over them, you'll be glad toi guys are still friends.
•    Since they are your best friend toi probably see them everyday at school so try to just kind of be yourself and act normal. It is hard but if he/she is your best friend then toi were probably a little plus comfortable around him/her to begin with so just act normal and don't try to impress him/her ou make them like toi back. It does not work!
•    Try not to tell your Friends about it because they will only tell everyone else and it will get to him/her and make them feel very uncomfortable. It only makes it worse.
•    Some songs might make toi feel sad, but listening to others like, "Teardrops On My Guitar" par Taylor rapide, swift might make toi accept the concept that your crush might not like you.
•    Do nott listen to l’amour songs ou slow songs. It can cause toi to become desperate.
•    Make sure you're over them when you're not around them AND when toi are. Sometimes you'll find that toi have gotten over them during a time apart, but the seconde they come up to you, toi fall for them again.
•    Don't tell them toi l’amour them if toi know for sure that they only want to be friends. This could damage the friendship.
•    Don't overindulge on treats. toi will feel even plus depressed in the morning.
•    Whatever toi do, do not cut contact with the person. Because they aren't in l’amour with you, when toi avoid them they will eventually just hang out with other people, causing a rift between toi two. This can be hard to fix and can ruin any hopes of being close Friends again.
•    Try to be thankful for the wonderful friendship toi have, always wanting plus could destroy your friendship.
•    Don't try to change yourself to become what toi think is attractive to the other person - they will only see toi as fake and insecure, a person who is not fun to be with, even as friends!
•    Don't attempt to make them jealous - if they really only see toi as a friend, s’embrasser another guy/girl in front of them won't really affect them, and you'll just end up feeling regretful and disappointed with yourself later.
•    If toi do tell them, don't automatically assume how they're going to react. This sometimes makes toi seem extremely foolish. If you're good enough friends, this might not affect your relationship as much as toi think.
•    Delete their phone number.
•    Did toi have a certain route in the hallway that toi took to class where toi ran into your crush? ou maybe it was a hangout that toi always saw him/her. Attempt to avoid these places because the plus toi don't see your crush the easier it will be to get over them!
•    You have to remember that your crush for a boy/girl will just come and go. And if toi kept thinking about him/her, just say this to yourself "There is not only one but many fishes in the water."
•    If your crush doesn't like toi for who toi are, well, all I can say is that he/she will "REGRET" someday.
•    Listen to inspiring songs like, "Forget You" par Cee Lo Green.

Warnings
•    Try not to get too depressed. It will be hard, but remember that life keeps going and it's better to go at the same speed.
•    Don't stay alone for too long, you'll get bored and start thinking of the person.
•    Don't keep thinking of the person. The plus toi think about them, the plus likely toi are to stay attached to them.
•    Don't become bitter! Just because the person doesn't like toi in that way doesn't mean toi can be unfriendly towards them. Don't let your pride get wounded! Sometimes people just aren't right for one another! It says nothing about who toi are.
•    Don't let your self-esteem drop. toi are still a wonderful person who deserves to be loved; this just wasn't the one who could l’amour toi in that way. toi will find many though who can. So keep faith in yourself!
•    Don't break down ou montrer aggression if the person tells toi he/she is in a relationship with someone.
•    Don't demand the person about ending a relationship with a significant other.
•    Don't jump into another serious relationship too soon. rendez-vous amoureux, date for fun, rendez-vous amoureux, date someone toi normally wouldn't have been interested in, have some fun as a single person. Seeing that there are plenty of people out there who want to be with toi will help toi déplacer on and feel better about yourself.
•    Don't do anything outright mean ou embarrassing. The goal is to get over your crush, not make your neighbor's life a living nightmare, ou to lose out on other potential relationships.
•    Do not become rude ou disrespectful around them. Treat them like a normal human being.
•    If the two of toi are Friends on MySpace ou a similar site, consider taking them off your buddy liste ou at least removing your subscription to them. When toi see a bulletin they've posté ou a blog they wrote, just skip past it.
•    Don't talk to them when you're under the influence of alcohol. toi will say something toi regret.
•    Remember not to gossip ou talk bad about them behind their back, because it will come back to haunt you.