1) The Hard man act - guys will put on an act of being hard for 2 reasons: a) They are with mates and having some banter. If ther is banter, there is Hard man acting. b) They fancy you. Some guys will try to give the impression that they are strong, athletic etc. But this is only one way of a guy trying to impress you. If a guy does not do this, it doesn't mean he doesn't fancy you. (see 2)
2) Guys will be sensitive. A guy will be mature and caring around toi if he fancies you. He wants to montrer he's not just thinking about sex, and is after a meaningful relationship. He wants to present himself as someone toi can trust and depend on.
3) For a gender that spends a lot of its time boasting about penis sizes, when it comes to asking toi out, it is rare that we have the balls. We like to have as much confirmation as we can that toi like us back so we don't make fools of ourselves, ou destroy a friendship. A mutual friend who gives conseil to both sides is very effective in speeding the process of building up the courage. If a very close friend of yours has donné him reason to believe toi like him, he is a lot plus likely to ask toi out.
4) conversation tiptoes. A guy will become plus confident and act plus freely the mor he discovers about you. For instance, if he discovers toi have a dirty mind, only then will he crack open the massive stores innuendos, dirty jokes and double entendres that have been accumulated over the years. If we discover that toi like football, then that may become a common feature of conversation.
5) Guys will think about everything especially if what toi say could be interpreted in plus than one way. This is because girls torment guys everyday par making it so difficult to work out what you're really thinking and if you're interested. To an extent it's fun - there's no describing that feelnig when toi think that a girl might like toi but you're not entirely sure. Instant adrenalin high.
6) We avoid packs. Girls are terrifying enough without having to deal with a large group. If a guy has not had any major conversations with toi for a while, it might not be that he isn't interested, he will just feel plus comfortable if he's not surrounded par girls and "on his own" then a guy's confidence will evaporate in seconds. We're way plus comfortable if we can have a conversation with toi alone. We don't have to deal with every one of your Friends watching us and making judgements on us and worknig out we're into toi and telling you. We will play it sûr, sans danger if possible.
7) Look at what effort do we make to chat to you? Who's first to start a Facebook ou text chat? Will he approach toi when with your friends? Will he leave his group of Friends if he sees toi walking par and talk to you? This shows he ranks your company above banter with friends, and means toi are important to him.
8) Like girls do this, it is also a common tactic amongst guys. A guy who often texts toi first may not start a conversation par text for a while, to see if toi will. This gives him an idea of how well toi value his conversation, ou he may think toi need some l’espace ou will be asleep. He won't want to seem too keen. If a guy toi fancy doesn't text toi for a while, text him.
9) Guys l’amour compliments. Doesn't matter if its part of an insult e.g. "Nah if i was in charge, I suppose i would kep toi around. I need SOMEONE who can make me laugh". This shows toi value a guy and makes him feel he's doing a good job.
10) The Chase. If a guy loves you, he will chase toi around the world. But toi tread a fine line. Nobody's going to wait around forever. Remember to drop some hints, give him some things to think about while he's gonig after you, uif you're playing hard to get, ou he may think you're not interested and let toi walk away.
11) a guy will often look at toi across a room ou from a distance if he likes you. If toi look at him, then don't take too much stock in if he turns away, maintains his stare, ou tries to look as if he's daydreaming. Each guy is different. And while some will be confident enough to maintain the loook, some will try to disguise it.
12) Sometimes a guy will go out of his way to help toi out. He wants to montrer he's kind. Look at if he does this to anybody else? If he does this to someone close to toi that he knows reasonably well, he may be trying to get some inside info on you. If he does this only to you, then he's montrer an interest.
13) Manpoints - not exclusive to guys. If toi play COD, ou like football, ou horror films, then this will give toi a lot of respect from the guy. We know that girls like this aren't common and although it isn't the be all and end all, it certainly helps.
14) Help us out. Sometimes we want toi to make the first move. We might be too scared, ou unsure if toi like us, ou just plain confused. Sometimes, (but not always) a guy erally wants toi to clear things up, and help him to understand the situation. Doesn't have to be a massive spoiler, just give him a less subtle indicator every now and then.
15) Just like girls travel in groups and tell each other everything, guys often will give their close Friends regular updates, ou even include their close friend (especially if that friend is taken) in your conversations as backup, another person they trust who can advise them, notice different things. Even if toi start going out, if a guy is wise, he won't stop the updates. He will know that the chase isn't over, that toi are still keeping him on his toes.
16) If a guy doesn't pick up on signals, ou doesn't ask toi out even if toi think you've made your feelings obvious. Sometimes we're hopelessly oblivious, ou just need things spelled out for us so that we can build up the courage to ask toi out.
17) Confidant - A common idea among guys is that if toi become a girl's confidant, toi are as good as in there. A common method of attempting to reach this position is telling toi the really deep stuff in their lives - their biggest secrets, things they dont talk about often. Do they mantion problems at home? The theory is that if they open up and montrer they trust you, then toi are likely to do the same.
18) conseil on other girls. If this ever comes your way, then be alert. this will tell toi for sure if the guy is into toi ou not. If he asks conseil on getting with an anonymous girl, toi might be that girl. If he asks conseil on how to let down gently a girl he doesn't fancy, but is single then think. Why is he letting toi know this? He trusts you. Is he keeping himself single for somebody? Is he making himself look desirable? Then there's a flipside. If he mentions a specific name, and wants conseil on getting together with her, then he's not into you.
19) Hypothetical questions are sometimes used because its not subtle but the guy feels easier if he uses it because it's not saying "I l’amour toi do toi fancy me?" It's a way of telling toi he likes toi but it makes it easier to do so. Also, then it gives the impresion that if toi say no, then things may not be so awkward.
20) We think about the girl we fancy roughly 22 hours a day. However it is not just "she looks hot, i want her in my bed". He will be thinking of hints you've donné him, imagining toi two together, ways to ask toi out, ou just thinking about how much he likes toi and reflecting on good times spent with you.
21) A guy may slip things you've told him into a conversation regularly. This demonstrates he's a good listener and thinks about what toi say.
2) Guys will be sensitive. A guy will be mature and caring around toi if he fancies you. He wants to montrer he's not just thinking about sex, and is after a meaningful relationship. He wants to present himself as someone toi can trust and depend on.
3) For a gender that spends a lot of its time boasting about penis sizes, when it comes to asking toi out, it is rare that we have the balls. We like to have as much confirmation as we can that toi like us back so we don't make fools of ourselves, ou destroy a friendship. A mutual friend who gives conseil to both sides is very effective in speeding the process of building up the courage. If a very close friend of yours has donné him reason to believe toi like him, he is a lot plus likely to ask toi out.
4) conversation tiptoes. A guy will become plus confident and act plus freely the mor he discovers about you. For instance, if he discovers toi have a dirty mind, only then will he crack open the massive stores innuendos, dirty jokes and double entendres that have been accumulated over the years. If we discover that toi like football, then that may become a common feature of conversation.
5) Guys will think about everything especially if what toi say could be interpreted in plus than one way. This is because girls torment guys everyday par making it so difficult to work out what you're really thinking and if you're interested. To an extent it's fun - there's no describing that feelnig when toi think that a girl might like toi but you're not entirely sure. Instant adrenalin high.
6) We avoid packs. Girls are terrifying enough without having to deal with a large group. If a guy has not had any major conversations with toi for a while, it might not be that he isn't interested, he will just feel plus comfortable if he's not surrounded par girls and "on his own" then a guy's confidence will evaporate in seconds. We're way plus comfortable if we can have a conversation with toi alone. We don't have to deal with every one of your Friends watching us and making judgements on us and worknig out we're into toi and telling you. We will play it sûr, sans danger if possible.
7) Look at what effort do we make to chat to you? Who's first to start a Facebook ou text chat? Will he approach toi when with your friends? Will he leave his group of Friends if he sees toi walking par and talk to you? This shows he ranks your company above banter with friends, and means toi are important to him.
8) Like girls do this, it is also a common tactic amongst guys. A guy who often texts toi first may not start a conversation par text for a while, to see if toi will. This gives him an idea of how well toi value his conversation, ou he may think toi need some l’espace ou will be asleep. He won't want to seem too keen. If a guy toi fancy doesn't text toi for a while, text him.
9) Guys l’amour compliments. Doesn't matter if its part of an insult e.g. "Nah if i was in charge, I suppose i would kep toi around. I need SOMEONE who can make me laugh". This shows toi value a guy and makes him feel he's doing a good job.
10) The Chase. If a guy loves you, he will chase toi around the world. But toi tread a fine line. Nobody's going to wait around forever. Remember to drop some hints, give him some things to think about while he's gonig after you, uif you're playing hard to get, ou he may think you're not interested and let toi walk away.
11) a guy will often look at toi across a room ou from a distance if he likes you. If toi look at him, then don't take too much stock in if he turns away, maintains his stare, ou tries to look as if he's daydreaming. Each guy is different. And while some will be confident enough to maintain the loook, some will try to disguise it.
12) Sometimes a guy will go out of his way to help toi out. He wants to montrer he's kind. Look at if he does this to anybody else? If he does this to someone close to toi that he knows reasonably well, he may be trying to get some inside info on you. If he does this only to you, then he's montrer an interest.
13) Manpoints - not exclusive to guys. If toi play COD, ou like football, ou horror films, then this will give toi a lot of respect from the guy. We know that girls like this aren't common and although it isn't the be all and end all, it certainly helps.
14) Help us out. Sometimes we want toi to make the first move. We might be too scared, ou unsure if toi like us, ou just plain confused. Sometimes, (but not always) a guy erally wants toi to clear things up, and help him to understand the situation. Doesn't have to be a massive spoiler, just give him a less subtle indicator every now and then.
15) Just like girls travel in groups and tell each other everything, guys often will give their close Friends regular updates, ou even include their close friend (especially if that friend is taken) in your conversations as backup, another person they trust who can advise them, notice different things. Even if toi start going out, if a guy is wise, he won't stop the updates. He will know that the chase isn't over, that toi are still keeping him on his toes.
16) If a guy doesn't pick up on signals, ou doesn't ask toi out even if toi think you've made your feelings obvious. Sometimes we're hopelessly oblivious, ou just need things spelled out for us so that we can build up the courage to ask toi out.
17) Confidant - A common idea among guys is that if toi become a girl's confidant, toi are as good as in there. A common method of attempting to reach this position is telling toi the really deep stuff in their lives - their biggest secrets, things they dont talk about often. Do they mantion problems at home? The theory is that if they open up and montrer they trust you, then toi are likely to do the same.
18) conseil on other girls. If this ever comes your way, then be alert. this will tell toi for sure if the guy is into toi ou not. If he asks conseil on getting with an anonymous girl, toi might be that girl. If he asks conseil on how to let down gently a girl he doesn't fancy, but is single then think. Why is he letting toi know this? He trusts you. Is he keeping himself single for somebody? Is he making himself look desirable? Then there's a flipside. If he mentions a specific name, and wants conseil on getting together with her, then he's not into you.
19) Hypothetical questions are sometimes used because its not subtle but the guy feels easier if he uses it because it's not saying "I l’amour toi do toi fancy me?" It's a way of telling toi he likes toi but it makes it easier to do so. Also, then it gives the impresion that if toi say no, then things may not be so awkward.
20) We think about the girl we fancy roughly 22 hours a day. However it is not just "she looks hot, i want her in my bed". He will be thinking of hints you've donné him, imagining toi two together, ways to ask toi out, ou just thinking about how much he likes toi and reflecting on good times spent with you.
21) A guy may slip things you've told him into a conversation regularly. This demonstrates he's a good listener and thinks about what toi say.
