so i accidentally didn't chose an icone and i've been trying 2 get 1 but where can i find it?

u should try Zerochan.net, this is were I got my icone
they have lots of cool stuff

Google chercher for a pic that toi want and then save it to your computer, then on your profil click where it says 'view plus photos' then choose 'upload new photo' and find the file toi saved. As the person above me said, zerochan is really good for animé pictures. :)