How come people are starting to call elegant/fancy people in video games gay? What's up with that?

Because British people are usually fancy, and gay people are usually British.

In modern society this ain't unique to video games.

Elegance = putting time into your appearance = something a lot of women do that is associated with femininity

when men do things that are viewed as being feminine those men are called gay so straight men can distance themselves from femininity. it's literally all bc the male ego is fragile af thx 2 patriarchy