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Should I have just a dit "thank you?"

I'm 14. I take public transportation to and from school. When I got to my stop to go home, this guy and some other people got off. The guy was walking suivant to me when he casually a dit in a low voice "nice legs." I didn't know what to say so I just a dit "oh" while looking at the ground. But then I started to feel offended so I looked at him like "what the fuck" while he was looking back at me and then moved away from him. It looked like he was in his mid to late 20s and he was pretty attractive but I was still creeped out. My friend who is a guy a dit that he was just trying to be nice and that I shouldn't make a big deal out of it. So was his compliment sincere and was just trying to be nice and I should have a dit "thank you", ou was he a pedophile for saying that? (Also, I do look older that I am but I was wearing my school uniform so it wasn't like he didn't know I was a minor.)
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I would have done the same. If it makes toi feel uncomfortable, toi shouldn't feel obliged to say thank toi whether he meant anything pervy par it ou not. Plus, if you're a student and he seemed that much older than you, I wouldn't trust it as anything but, anyway. I think you're reaction was justified.
peacebaby7 posted il y a plus d’un an
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^thank. That makes me feel better.
Musiquelover posted il y a plus d’un an
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yeeah
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X-Kid said:
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
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*bitch please*
DerpThatHerp posted il y a plus d’un an
bratzdolly11 said:
In my opinion it sounds kinda pervy but it could of been a compliment but since it came from a 20 an old it's still strange.

Sorry if this confused toi ou didn't help at all I just realized my answer REALLY sucked
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It's fine, thanks. :)
Musiquelover posted il y a plus d’un an
prussiaducky said:
In a low voice, nice legs...

Hmm, in a low voice. That is not okay.

Complimenting legs is not an average thing to do, nor is it taken as a compliment in today's society.

Either he was SUPER socially impaired, ou was honestly a pervert. He could have said:
"You look nice today"
"You have a gorgeous pair of legs!"

That is plus appropriate.
If it was in a low voice, than that is quite strange.

If it happens again, tell him that toi do not feel comfortable with that commentaire and to say plus appropriate compliment.

I would certainly not say thanks to that, if his tone was friendly and positive, then sure I'd say thank toi and déplacer back, but it seems like his tone was quite dangerous
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
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The tone matters, not the comment.
prussiaducky posted il y a plus d’un an
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No, mid 20's saying that to 14 an old is creepy in any type of way.
X-Kid posted il y a plus d’un an
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i dont get why its such a big deal that he has a low voice, men do seem to have ... low voices.
summer2987 posted il y a plus d’un an
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^it was I wierd low voice though. Low and quiet like he didn't want anyone to hear him. The tone in his voice did not sound like he had good intentions. If he had a dit it in a nice, and light tone, it wouldn't have been as awkward and suspicious.
Musiquelover posted il y a plus d’un an
summer2987 said:
well try to see it from the mans point of view.

he was probably just being nice like your male friend tried to point out.

but he didnt try to do any thing to hurt toi ou any thing of that sort except compliment toi .


however if he did seem a but aggressive ou hostile then i guess that language was used appropriately .

but if he just seemed calm and nice and no threat then he just meant it as a nice thing to say to a person with nice legs .
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
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Yeah. Maybe. I'm just not used to getting compliments like that. I usually get compliments on stuff like my clothes, hair, ou just being pretty in general. But a component on my body Im not used to so it freaked me out a little. :\
Musiquelover posted il y a plus d’un an
EgoMouse said:
Eh, toi didn't need to respond.
Though, its probably no big deal. He was just complimenting you.
Most men naturally has low voices, so it was likely his natural voice. Tbh, men's voices gets higher usually when they talk to someone he finds attractive. He could of possibly had a dit it to another woman suivant to toi since there were other people getting off as well and toi just happen to be there. Anybody can have nice legs, though it doesn't necessarily mean the person who complimented was sexually attracted to toi just for having nice legs.
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Book-Freak said:
toi should definitely not have a dit thank you. If something someone says ou does makes toi uncomfortable, don't pretend to be okay with it.
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IsidoraSmiley said:
Yeah I would've reacted the same but when toi think about it toi did the right thing...He seemed much older and it was pretty clear that you're a minor from the school uniform. If toi a dit thank toi he might have got toi further into a conversation and then what could happen? Ok,I might be exaggerating but no,it's alright that toi didn't say anything...
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Zeppie said:
God no, definitely no need to say thank toi hahaha

If toi don't feel comfortable with his compliment, don't feel obliged to respond.

It happened to me and I kinda didn't know what to do so I just pretended I didn't hear, and kept walking. commentaires like those creep the fck out of me coming from any stranger :L
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doorsgirl666 said:
That's strange.
And really creepy.
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