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What do I do?

I'm a freshman in high school and I've had a crush on this guy since September and since then we have become friendly with each other but not close friends, plus like acquaintances. Anyway, I've found out recently that he kind of knows I like him. We haven't spoken since I became aware of this which was about three weeks il y a and now I feel really awkward and self conscious around him. Before he knew I asked one of my Friends who is one of his close Friends to ask him if he liked me. She told me that he a dit no. I don't want to give up on him that easily though because I feel like he just doesn't know me well enough to know whether he likes me ou not because I'm shy and not very talkative and I think he's a really good guy and could learn to like me if he got to know me better. So now I'm scared to talk to him but at the same time I want to talk to him plus and try to get him to like me. It would mean a lot to me if toi could give me some good conseil on what to do in a situation like this. like how to not be so nervous around him and what kind of things to say to him. thanks!
 Musiquelover posted il y a plus d’un an
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xenriquegrl said:
I am exactly like you! I am also a very shy person but I'm gonna share with toi the tricks and knacks I've learned on how to just get over it.

First of all, toi know that he knows but the worst thing toi can do is to just stop talking to him. toi say toi wanna talk to him, so, as much as toi don't want to see this, just talk to him. Not about the fact that toi like him but just about aléatoire stuff. Be yourself, get to know what he likes and see if toi two have things in common.

The best way toi can start par talking to him is to casually say hi at school and if he's in any of your classes just ask an how are you? And toi don't have to say anymore than that. That way toi seem open and friendly. If your too shy to say hi, try to smile. A casual smile. Guys go for girls who seem friendly no matter what toi look like (although I bet your very beautiful duh). The fact is because your jouer la comédie kinda cold, it sends a wrong vibe to him. toi shouldn't be ashamed that he knows. It might actually be flattering to him ;)

toi need confidence too. A great way to get started with that is par making sure toi have great Friends who support toi and make toi laugh and feel good. Hold your chin up, even if he don't like toi now, doesn't mean he won't in the futur. Ask your Friends to accompany toi to ask him to chill with a group, great way to get to know someone! Your with your Friends so toi feel confident, and it makes things less awkward. Just as long as toi start par being Friends and don't get your hopes too too up cuz there are a lot of poisson in the sea and your still a freshman so girl, toi got plenty of time!

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posted il y a plus d’un an 
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Thank toi so much! toi made my day. At first I was thinking if he ever asked me about it I would deny everything haha, but u have a good point in saying that he may actually be flattered so I will try what toi said. Thanks a lot :)
Musiquelover posted il y a plus d’un an
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salut your welcome ;) tell me how it went!!!
xenriquegrl posted il y a plus d’un an
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ou how it goes sorry haha
xenriquegrl posted il y a plus d’un an
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