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What Should I Do?

Ok I usually wouldnt ask a question on here, I would usually just resolve it myself but I cant handle this anymore.
I like this girl (yes i realize im a girl too so homophobic people please keep your commentaires to yourself, i dont want to be called a dyke again). Anyway, I like this girl ou shall I say Im madly in l’amour with her. The only problem is...she's a complete nutcase. I mean on medication, in mental institution nutcase. (Ironially as I write this, she's in Springgrove, a mental institution in Maryland, for the suivant 3 weeks).
Ive tried so many times to get over her but I cant. She's broken my cœur, coeur numerous times, cst me my relationship with my boyfriend and embrassed me par groping me in class (numerous times).
What do i do? How do i get over her? Ive tried my usual method of putting my emotions and stress to the ack of my head and forgetting it, letting fate take over but thats not working. Please anybody, just help!!! Please!!!!!!
 avatar2012 posted il y a plus d’un an
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JBfan516 said:
well first of all take a deep breath and breathe out slowly, seems like u could use it.

And second, the feelings toi have for her aren't going to go away over night. Bu toi have to realize that this person probably isn't the one for you. I realized that before and it's hard, I know but toi have to try to distance yourself from her as much as possible. Try to focus on a new crush if toi can find one and if not then focuz on a big celebrity crush toi have. And if you're a big musique person, find a song that describes how toi feel and just listen to that song until toi get the strength to pull away from her.
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
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btw this is only if u wanna get over her
JBfan516 posted il y a plus d’un an
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Thank toi so much. I think i want to get over her, shes only caused trouble in my life. Ill take your advice, thank you.
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demyxfangirl said:
i think toi should tell her how toi feel and maybe she will feel the same way and it doesnt matter if she she is a nutcase, if toi truly l’amour her toi should tell her.
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
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ive tried telling her how i feel and she sort of listened though i could try again. Thank you.
avatar2012 posted il y a plus d’un an
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though i kind of want to get over her.
avatar2012 posted il y a plus d’un an
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np
demyxfangirl posted il y a plus d’un an
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oh and sorry if i was no help
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samuraibond005 said:
toi can decide to take this any way toi want to.
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
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yay musique time :)
demyxfangirl posted il y a plus d’un an
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thank toi that song helped a bit.
avatar2012 posted il y a plus d’un an
writer67 said:
nothing wrong with being a bit of a nutcase but them grugs are pressants either ups downs ou weight building. yet some will act weirdly for attention and to start a scene as she seems to have been left out ou abandoned in some shape ou form, as toi feel l’amour ,much is hard to do let alone forget. l’amour shows its crazy yet sweet at the same time, ask her if toi will always be freinds,and will toi freinds when your old, that may help for to let go toi first must find the angle for a closure of a broken heart, toi are a good person,who does care,good an ya and good luck. and yes i been in nut house as a volunteer paient, i didnt have to take the drugs and i saw skinny people get fat,and montrer no creativeness. and much sadness,and broken hearts do mend as they harden on the outside yet become weaker on the inside. may peace be with toi to find the right direction;-]
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Thank you, and for the record she is in the nurturer ( for the seconde time) because she chased her ex boyfriend around school with a knife. That's part of the reason I think it's a bad idea for me and her to go out but on other hand I can't get over her so thank toi im going to ask her if we are going to Friends for a long ri
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harleyquinn17 said:
hey, its okay for her to hav a mental prob. beacause u have to know their feelings the right way.i do hav a disease in my head so i understand and i go through this several times.just take some time off and dnt stress much and maybe it can go away ou maybe u will find another person.btw there is plenty of poisson in da sea!! :P
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
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thank toi
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xenriquegrl said:
Do toi really want to get over her? Because par the way toi wrote ur question, I can read (between the lines) that toi wanna get over her, but at the same time toi want her (you know watt I mean).

If toi really wanna get over her, keep ur distance from her and focus on something else like the things toi love. I dunno, go to a Friends house, listen to musique (that has nothing to do with a wanted relationship), draw, take a walk, phone ur grandma idk. Keep ur mind of her.

But toi know watt would do toi some good, if you'd talk to someone about it, like a family member ou a bff. And remember, don't try to get over her just cuz she's a mental nutcase. That could really hurt someone inside the heart. She could eventually learn about it and get deeply hurt. It's just for precaution. So yea, focus on something else! But I won't lie, u might not get over her par tomorrow. It might take a while. But toi WILL get over her;)
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thank toi
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