I just don't understand. What's wrong with me? Why haven't experienced real l’amour yet? Why do boys not want to be with me? Why hasn't he come to me?

Your only sixteen, toi have your life ahead of toi to find your true love, right now toi should enjoy being single and a teen, toi sound like a great person and im sure toi will find an amazing guy, but wait for him he will come, your still young
This is not the time to start looking for the real l’amour because in truth girls maybe ready for that but us guys arent yet, no offense to any other dudes but we're not mature enough, you'll be better off with a guy who knows whats going on, and im 100% possitive many people think toi are beautiful, toi just dont know it yet :)
But really first loves are hard

Trust me, there is NOTHING wrong with you. You're young! Everyone has someone out there. You'll find him! As for now, enjoy being single! Enjoy being FREE!

Don't worry, eventually, your SOUL MATE will come along, you'll just have to go through a few jerks before that, we all will. Just don't give up faith and keep searching for love!

dont be that worried, toi are just 16, your life is just starting, someday that guy toi are dreaming with will apear and that jour i can bet it will worth the wait

we're in the same bateau i'm jst a an older then u.

Stop looking for real love. Experience has taught me that if you're looking really hard, you're probably not going to find it. It will find you. Just go about toi life and forget about love. Yeah, that sounds weird, but l’amour was the absolute last thing on my mind when "Mr. Perfect" came my way. Don't stress out about it, everything will turn out ok. :) It may take time, it took years for me, but everything will turn out ok. :)

toi are sixteen. I am eighteen, and I've been asked out once but I turned him down. You'll find someone; it doesn't have to be yet. I'm not worried. I won't rendez-vous amoureux, date until I feel something different than what I've felt for all my guy friends. Don't go looking for it. When it's the real thing, you'll know.

I have the same situation too. :(

look....itz had nothing 2 do 4 being strange ou had something wrong with u...i mean alawys had the think that these guys u felt something towards them if theyy will be with u they will break ur cœur, coeur ...alawys belive that all of ur smart and sweety personalitiyy and 4 sure ur romantic power are just keeped 4 the one.the one that l’amour u adore u and he will scrafiee antyhing 4 u...and that guy gonna appear somedayy and who knows maybe these jour is todayy.and all the boys r bad 4 not having honest girl like u.alawyss belive wth the dayy u gonna see ur l’amour in and he is waiting 4 u sa well.i amd telling u these as result of expraince that iam really waiting 4 ma real l’amour that gonna appear one dayy,,had the think that theyy r the wrong guys 4 not being in a relation with u not you..belive in ur self.and donnot think 4 one minute that ur different caz certainlyy ur the best....plzz alawys belive in these.good luck <333

hmm, sounds like toi and me are kinda similar. I'm 16 too, and I've never been asked out :( It's not to do with looks (some guys have actually called me pretty) but it's just that I'm really shy and I'm not 'out there' like other girls, that's why they're not noticing me =/ and I'm a huge romantic too!
I guess the time will come some jour for the both of us. Patience is a virtue after all :)

I have the same problem girl. It's not you. Sometimes it takes tiome to find someone who will l’amour you. Just don't always focus on finding l’amour cuz then toi won't find it. But that doesn't mean to stop beleiving! If toi keep up hope, you'll find it, and if toi really want it, you'll get it!

It will take time though, your still young! toi got your whole life ahead of you, don't trash it away cuz toi can't find love. While toi wait for it to come, do the things that make toi happy. Who cares if other people are getting into relationships! toi should be happy that at the present moment toi don't have to worry about a guy to please. Most chicks give so much attention to their boyfriends that they forget about everything else, wich sucks! So focus on the present and don't think about the futur. Your time will come. Maybe not now, but someday for sure!!!!

Oh and about the ''I've also never been kissed'' thing, I'm gonna repeat something that a friend right here on fanpop told me. It's better to wait for a while for your first Kiss than have it with some asshole right? (ok, she didn't say it like that, but close enough). So live ur life and someone will notice toi for being toi and fall for you. Guarantee!!!;)

it is quite common to not find l’amour untill toi are older, there is nothing wrong with you. some people dont have thier first Kiss till a little later and that is just fine.

if toi want a boyfriend, toi could try just putting yourself out there a lil plus and talking to the guys toi like and giveing some of the guys that ask toi out a chance. they may suprise you.

I don't believe that there's anything wrong with toi especially if there were a few guys that had already asked toi out. To be honest, toi should really give them a chance

You're sixteen years old, toi still have years to come to find that special someone because it definitely takes time. Shoot, I remember when my ex-boyfriend started talking to me that I honestly didn't want to give him a chance att all 'cause I actually believed that he was like the rest that I've came across. Of course he'd proven me right four years later when I found out that he was engaged to someone else. That was the end of that and that's the reason why I am not in a rush to be in a relationship.

The right guy will come along for you, but toi just have to be patient. Get out there and rendez-vous amoureux, date guys, montrer them that toi are worth being with(in a respectable way). When toi find that one guy, the key is not being clingy. Guys really really hate that and it pushes him away from you. Good luck, Kiddo!

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