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Why have I never been treated right in a relationship?

In the relationships I've been in, i've always been treated badly when I don't deserve it. I'm faithful and a nice person when it comes to a relationship. I was always really sweet and too nice to them but why do I always get treated like crap when I don't deserve it? :'(
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try try and try again never never let them treat u like ur garbige if this happens just walk away
jazzscarb posted il y a plus d’un an
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that sounded corny
jazzscarb posted il y a plus d’un an
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Thank toi :)
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Hellohoudini said:
If toi LET people treat toi badly...they will....when going into a relationship...be confident in who toi are and let others know "I'm a good person and I will not become someone else's door mat...." Always keep your sweetness and your faithfulness but refuse to take other peoples crap!

Good luck sweetie!
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
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Thank toi :) this really helped!
RnBStar13 posted il y a plus d’un an
venant said:
Maybe the problem, is neither toi nor the boy, but the fact of dating before the right time,

toi see, if toi give a diamon to someone who doesn't know the value of it, he will find it beautifull at the beginning, but still he will treat it like other stones.

I don't know how old toi are, but what i know is that teen guys don't know how to treat a girl, I'm telling toi that because I'm a boy, and i was a teen once.
so for me toi can't realy blame the boy even if it's he fault, because he is not mature enough to take good care of you.

so my conseil is strange, but i'm convinced that it's right, toi should just stop dating immature boys, and wait, to grow up enough to rendez-vous amoureux, date a guy who will be able to take care of you...
that doesn't mean that bad guys don't existe they do, but it's up to toi to make the right choice

take good care of you... there are alot of boys on earth but a lil that are good.
but toi girls have this tallent to sence it, so don't be blinded par l’amour and be carefull
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
Dansea08 said:
I agree with most of the réponses that have already been written about your question.I don't know you,I don't know the people you've had relationships with in the past and I don't know the kind of relationships you've had and how you've both acted during the relationship(s).So I am only speaking generically so what I say is just a helpful tool that might help toi in your journey,if toi want it.OK..As someone else pointed out,"If toi LET people treat toi badly,they WILL." No matter how much it hurts,you should never give up because there is ALWAYS a light at the end of the tunnel.To avoid making the same mistakes and getting into relationships that are not healthy,examine what EXACTLY happened in EACH one of those relationships.No two relationships are the same but toi may find similarities and those similarities are the key to helping toi heal and gain hope to develop relationships that are sincere and respectful.No one is perfect but everyone can change if they want to.Before toi get yourself into another relationship,make sure toi have resolved your past so it won't haunt your future.One of the best ways to figure out what exactly went wrong and what mistakes were made (on both parts),tell the person toi trust and respect the most what happened.Be completely honest about what happened and ask him/her to offer his/her conseil on the situation.You didn't clarify if your relationships were friendships ou romantic relationships but I am assuming its romantic.Correct me if I'm wrong.I really hope toi thought my conseil was at least somewhat helpful.I wish toi luck in whatever path toi choose to go to with your future relationships.Last piece of conseil is that every relationship will have its ups and downs but what should always remain are respect and trust.Without those two components,a healthy relationship will never develop.Those trusting and respectful relationships are not hard to find and sometimes they are right in front of you,you just have to look at it. :D Best of Luck!
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
PaisleyPark said:
I have the same problem. :\

I think it comes down to being too nice. When you're too nice people think they can walk all over you.

That's my problem, anyway.

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toi just need to find better guys.
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
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i agree i think it's not the type of guy who is right iv been through the same and im tired of it so just try try not to let them walk alover ur self
jazzscarb posted il y a plus d’un an
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Thank toi :) and yeah you're probably right, people always take advantage over me :/
RnBStar13 posted il y a plus d’un an
xenriquegrl said:
It's not you! Sometimes, it's what happens in relationships in your teen yrs cuz guys can be immature as hell but u know what?

It means that with all of the pain toi got from those relationships, your better prepared for the futur! And your most likely to get the man of your dreams to come running to you. When your out of school (I don't know if u graduated yet) toi start to explore. Just keep your eyes and ears open!

With all of the jerks u had, the perfect man will be right in line! When your with a guy who treats toi bad, stand up for yourself! Don't let them get u thinking that u have a problem! It'll totally work out!:)
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
skytail127 said:
youve got to demand respect. toi deserve to be treated right. dont put up with a guy treating toi like crap. if toi let him get away with it once, he will keep doing it. if he doesnt treat toi right, leave him. dont stay with guy that treat toi badly, and eventualy toi will find a guy who will treat toi right.
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
samuraibond005 said:
If possible, rendez-vous amoureux, date people that toi have already established a connection with.
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