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Ex awkwardness...advice?

So I have a bit of a problem...
I had a long distance relationship which didn't work out, and I broke up with him about 3 months ago. Since it was long distance I had to break up with him over the phone, instead of face to face, which I didn't like but I felt I had no other choice.

After that we haven't kept in touch at all, until now. We are in the same city for the suivant few weeks and I keep seeing him because we have mutual friends. It's really awkward when we see each other and I'm wondering should I try to talk with him alone to get closure, ou just leave it and keep avoiding him? I have no feelings for him, but he was really upset when we first broke up and I'm not sure how he's doing now.

I don't want to encourage any left over feelings but I also don't wanna be a b!tch and hopefully we can be Friends ou acquaintances in the future? blah I've never been in this situation before
 Jillywinkles posted il y a plus d’un an
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JBfan516 said:
I think toi should just confront him about everything. Tell him how toi feel just like u did here and see what he says. toi can't keep going on leaving it akward every time u see him, u gotta be Friends ou at least acquaintances as u said. Either way ur gonna end up either confronting him ou him confronting u because u 2 cant take this forever
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
xenriquegrl said:
There's always a way to break the awkwardness. toi could talk to him, start a conversation on something random. It's always awkward after a couple breaks up (well...most of the time) but if toi can't take the awkwardness anymore, talk to him and tell him how toi feel. Try to comfort him since it hurt him (like u said) when u guys broke up. Hope this helps!
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
vanillaicecream said:
I'm telling toi there is no possible way to get rid of this awkwardness...
Seriously, If I were toi I would not talk to my ex..because that shows that toi give a damn about him ( which is NOT true) If toi go out with the other guy already, this should be easier.

My ex was dating my best friend(! and I never ever felt jealous, only sorry for her) because our relationships were nothing- a meaningless kiss, couple of dates,that is it, but when we I ditched that guy, I started to go out with my boyfriend ( hey, 3 years already)!


Do not bother, unless toi want to return him back...
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