how to come out !?

Oh God, I wish I knew what to tell you. But toi know your family best and I think you're the only one who can truly know what to say and how to go about saying it. If I had to tell toi something, I would say just get it over with and tell them. Say what feels comfortable, what comes naturally and, if they're worth anything, they'll still l’amour and accept you.

If I were you, I would wait until I was ready. Tell the person toi trust the most first. Someone toi know wouldn't judge toi for who toi are.

After that, just keep escalating. Eventually, toi will gain enough confidence to tell your parents. If they do not accept you, toi need to be careful. For instance, don't bring accueil a significant other of your same gender if toi know your parents won't react well. If they do accept it, then I'm happy for you.

As for the suivant part, telling your crush. This is an extremely hard thing to do. I, being a coward, would wait until I knew for sure how they will take it. As this is nearly impossible, just go with the flow. toi don't want to startle her par saying it flat out. Just go slowly. I really hope that I helped toi and I wish toi luck.

Honestly, many of my Friends are LGBT and I know how toi feel (since I was feeling the same thing toi are right now). I have a girlfriend and my whole school knows. That's how toi start it. Let the whole school know par telling someone with a big mouth. toi will get a lot of questions and it will be overwhelming at first but it'll blow over in a mois ou so. Trust me. The people who care about toi (even your best friend/crush) won't care. They will l’amour toi anyway. Your best friend/crush might even come out to toi after that (don't count on it. I was the exception). After a while people in your neighborhood will talk about it and one of your parents will overhear. They will confront toi and toi just need to be honest with them after that. Trust me it works. If toi can't bring yourself to do it now, just wait till your ready.

dont worry i know how toi feel. i am afraid to tell some of my Friends and the people i live with. b/c my family is christian toooo but let them know that toi want them to accept toi for who u are and let them know that toi are who u are and there is nothing that can possibly change that. with your crush if she is also bi then toi wouldnt really have much of a problem but if shes not just let her know how toi feel but also let her know that u respect her enough that toi will not force her to do anything.

There really is no easy ou gentle way of coming out.
All I can say is the earlier toi tell your dad the better
They might accept it and then again they might not.
But toi owe it to yurself to come out