Im gonna lose my best friend.

b4 we became Friends she had a best friend. they were practically sisters. Well 2 years il y a she left and never came back. without warning. She called my best friend last week and a dit she is coming back in two months. and once she does she is going to spend all her time with my best friend. and there will no longer be room for me. i know this sounds really snotty and rude but i dont wanna share her, and i need help. Should i tell my best friend how i feel? ou just suffer in silence?
 Metal_chick1749 posted il y a plus d’un an
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sarabeara said:
Without a doubt tell your best friend how toi feel. Tell her that you're afraid that if her best friend comes back you're afraid you'll be left out. I'm sure she won't get angry at you, if anything she'll try to include toi in plus things and try to make toi feel not left out. Plus, try to get to know the old best friend. toi might find that toi like her too. I know they always say "3 is a crowd" ou whatever but that's not always true. In middle school, it was always me, my friend Kim, and her friend Beth. I never felt left out because we did everything together.

So definately tell her. It's always better to communicate feelings rather than wonder what could have been if toi would have told her the truth.
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Agreed :) I have 2 best Friends and it always works! (although I know that toi may not like the other girl as much))
volleyblue13 posted il y a plus d’un an
mickis14 said:
Oh it´s nO snotty i don´t like to share my bff too :)
i think u should tell your friend
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iluvfezandkelso said:
u need to tell ur bff how u feel
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MISSLOVATOSTAR1 said:
I know wat your going threw ,but u just can't keep her all two yourself , thats how u lose Friends . U should really talk two her sbout how u feel . It's always good to talk about something that might be messing with u .
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rosenda said:
u should tell ur bff!!! that happen to me i didn't wanted to share my bf bt even though i didn't told her i met her other BF n i like her a lot so we became best friends!!! the three of us best Friends forever!!!! good luck
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mis_24_lover said:
if shes not happy with toi then let gfo of her!!! toi should be happy wherever ou what ever is her dicission right???
so go wiyh the flow
if shes going toi find other friend then toi should find for other too
but if dont have any choise let goi of her thats the best thing ypu can do for her this time okey????????=}

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Norrapang said:
defenitely talk to her
if she's really your friend, she'll listen to toi and try to include you
if she's not...well, she's not worth it
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shadow-angel said:
Tell her how toi feel. toi guys are friends....she'll understand. And if she doesn't, then she's not much of a friend and toi should déplacer on....Good luck....
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MuniekaXo said:
The best thing to do is tell her how toi feel and if shez a good friend she'll understand if not friendz come and they go its a test to montrer toi if shez a real friend ou not... Gud LuCK!
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wierdgem7 said:
Aaaaw, i nearly cried when i read that. I think toi should tell her, and if she gets traverser, croix and says your snotty ou rude then shes not a good friend. Maybe toi could make Friends with her old best friend and toi could be a group. See my best friend had another best friend once but they fell out, so I became her new Best friend. Then she made up with her old best friend. I got to know her and now were a group!!
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