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l’amour Isn't l’amour sometimes a bad thing?

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Yeah, in some situations we suffer too much

77%

Nope, it's always a joy to l’amour

23%

leuron posted il y a plus d’un an

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	leuron picked Yeah, in some situations we suffer too much: LOL it's me, don't freak out... :P posted il y a plus d’un an.

	DarkSarcasm picked Yeah, in some situations we suffer too much: ...and in some situations, we look like serial killers. ;) posted il y a plus d’un an.

	leuron picked Yeah, in some situations we suffer too much: :P serial killers? LOL what in the hell do you mean? posted il y a plus d’un an.

	DarkSarcasm picked Yeah, in some situations we suffer too much: serial killer - A person who attacks and kills victims one by one in a series of incidents. You look like a serial killer in that picture. No lies. ;) posted il y a plus d’un an.

	leuron picked Yeah, in some situations we suffer too much: :P okay i'll try to take that as a compliment... as hard as it might be... LOL posted il y a plus d’un an.

	DarkSarcasm picked Yeah, in some situations we suffer too much: What makes you think it was meant as a compliment? ;) posted il y a plus d’un an.

	leuron picked Yeah, in some situations we suffer too much: okay.... :( posted il y a plus d’un an.

	DarkSarcasm picked Yeah, in some situations we suffer too much: Awww. Fine. You win. glare posted il y a plus d’un an.

	leuron picked Yeah, in some situations we suffer too much: yay!! and like, we're the only ones commenting this pick LOL just lame posted il y a plus d’un an.

	DarkSarcasm picked Yeah, in some situations we suffer too much: You're the one who made the lame pick. Don't blame me. =P posted il y a plus d’un an.

	leuron picked Yeah, in some situations we suffer too much: ah.... damn you.... :P posted il y a plus d’un an.

	DarkSarcasm picked Yeah, in some situations we suffer too much: You know you love my unrelenting cruelty. Admit it. =P posted il y a plus d’un an.

	leuron picked Yeah, in some situations we suffer too much: i love you.... but as a FRIEND... LOL you rock.... posted il y a plus d’un an.

	DarkSarcasm picked Yeah, in some situations we suffer too much: Not another one! LOL! posted il y a plus d’un an.

	leuron picked Yeah, in some situations we suffer too much: wooot? ;P posted il y a plus d’un an.

	TheCountess picked Yeah, in some situations we suffer too much: I know that I'm not a member of this spot (stupid computer won't let me join either), but I felt that I needed to share on this... I've definately made mistakes in the past with what I thought was love. In some cases it was, but that doesn't always mean that what you get in return, is what you deserve. I've been married twice, and neither husband ended up being who I thought I knew. I was lucky in my last relationship to truely have found and received love from someone special. We had been living together for nine years, and we both believed in the term soulmate after all that we had shared. Our relationship and love was something that grew stronger every day. The bad part is, he passed away in his sleep almost a year ago, and I can't begin to explain how much suffering and grief that can cause. At first, I couldn't even stay at the house. It took almost two weeks before I had the nerve to try. I know that there's the old phrase of drown your sorrows away, but I know from experience that if I'm feeling down, alcohol will just increase my depression, not to mention how I'd feel later. I knew that was definately something I shouldn't consider, so I began to sort things out, and went on a big cleaning frenzy for starters. It just seems easier if I keep myself busy, or if I lose myself on the internet. That doesn't mean that it still doesn't hurt, but if I get distracted enough, at least that's not all I'm thinking about. I still have days and nights where I cry, and I have a feeling this is going to be one of them... so, yes you can definately suffer. :( posted il y a plus d’un an.

	xXxian-luverxXx picked Yeah, in some situations we suffer too much: i know wot dis is about ask that girl out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! plz posted il y a plus d’un an.

	Jillywinkles picked Nope, it's always a joy to l’amour: I don't agree with the part about love always being "joy" or whatever, but I think even when love feels like the most awful thing in the world, it's not bad. It's better than feeling nothing. I would choose the awful rip-your-heart-out kind of love over not ever loving at all. Maybe that's because I'm not a negative kind of person--I would never go into depression, try to kill myself, or anything like that. posted il y a plus d’un an.

	chelsea21 picked Yeah, in some situations we suffer too much: i have had joy n suffering. n thecountess i am very truly sorry. right now i am grateful i am happy jared is still w/ me. we have been dating for three yrs six monthes n 3 days. n its the been the best thing that has ever happened to me posted il y a plus d’un an.

	Dark_Silence picked Nope, it's always a joy to l’amour: When you are in love you (may) stop being selfish and begin thinking about other human being. It also provides a good reason for your mind to be on the clouds. It may be painful but the joyous moments are worth it. posted il y a plus d’un an.

	fuzzycovers picked Yeah, in some situations we suffer too much: Too much confusion sometimes... posted il y a plus d’un an.

	IsabellaAzuria picked Yeah, in some situations we suffer too much: i'm too sceptical and both of us have to suffer posted il y a plus d’un an.

	hellgirl223 picked Yeah, in some situations we suffer too much: i feel so bad for TheCountess! hugs even if ive nvr expeienced but im sure there are times where u feel sad n sometimes ure happy in love posted il y a plus d’un an.

	FluFFyClouds picked Yeah, in some situations we suffer too much: Wow TheCountess I am really sorry I know that isn't much. I was about to cry so sad. posted il y a plus d’un an.

	momo_228 picked Nope, it's always a joy to l’amour: i totally agree with fluffyclouds. youre story leads me to believe that u are much older than me, but you seem to have a lot of wisdom either way. i think i suffer for love every day(no one i end up loving ever loves me) but nothing will ever beat the feeling of excitment you get when you just start liking someone and you don't know if they feel the same way yet. except for knowing that they do. posted il y a plus d’un an.

	twilightlova13 picked Yeah, in some situations we suffer too much: Sometimes! but sometimes it is worth it!!=) posted il y a plus d’un an.

	geekmeister34 picked Nope, it's always a joy to l’amour: poor TheCountess! I have been the victim of unrequited love. That doesnt mean that i will be cautious about ever loving again. posted il y a plus d’un an. last edited il y a plus d’un an

	twilightangel said: u look cute in that pick. (just saying to be nice but means it too) well sometimes it bad....i got really hurt by love b4. and well i dont wanna get attached to ppl alot. just in case they dont like me anymore....kinda the same w/friends....i got hurt by some friends. posted il y a plus d’un an.

	leuron picked Yeah, in some situations we suffer too much: loool well on the "Yeah" option i totally look like a serial killer o.O to complete the look i just needed some piercings and earrings xD posted il y a plus d’un an. last edited il y a plus d’un an

	Emma01 picked Nope, it's always a joy to l’amour: if you suffer then its not love. posted il y a plus d’un an.

	emmett picked Yeah, in some situations we suffer too much: i am suffering but for another person that 'loved' me. but i have a new better person. :) and i am not suffering with them . posted il y a plus d’un an.

	emmett picked Yeah, in some situations we suffer too much: scratch that last comment of mine. posted il y a plus d’un an.

	Nea13 picked Yeah, in some situations we suffer too much: Totally posted il y a plus d’un an.

	latinlover picked Yeah, in some situations we suffer too much: yups posted il y a plus d’un an.

	Stelluna picked Yeah, in some situations we suffer too much: Are you kidding? Love can be sooooooo painful!!!!!!!! =( posted il y a plus d’un an.

	Mongoose09 picked Yeah, in some situations we suffer too much: whoever picked no clearly hasnt experienced proper love posted il y a plus d’un an.

	LT_spongebob123 picked Yeah, in some situations we suffer too much: maybie sometimes posted il y a plus d’un an.

	Friendly_Girl picked Yeah, in some situations we suffer too much: 100% true... posted il y a plus d’un an.

	ljsb picked Yeah, in some situations we suffer too much: I love & miss someone so much that it hurtz posted il y a plus d’un an.

	LoveDraco123 picked Yeah, in some situations we suffer too much: Love's generally a good thing, but sometimes, it hurts too much. But love without pain isn't really romance, yo. XD posted il y a plus d’un an.

	Alexander_Rybak picked Nope, it's always a joy to l’amour: It's not love that hurts but other things like rejection posted il y a plus d’un an.

	cookiehead101 picked Yeah, in some situations we suffer too much: sometimes u dont know y but u r in luv with a bad person that happened 2 me b4 e was a gangster i regret that :( posted il y a plus d’un an.

	HaruLuver picked Yeah, in some situations we suffer too much: yeah because if you love someone that doesn't love you back then yah posted il y a plus d’un an.

	ZiaRashad picked Nope, it's always a joy to l’amour: It's a joy even when things r bad posted il y a plus d’un an.

	DramaQueen1020 picked Yeah, in some situations we suffer too much: That reminded me of the song Too Much Love Will Kill You posted il y a plus d’un an.

	Sinna_Hime_chan picked Nope, it's always a joy to l’amour: Love is never a bad emotion or thing and never a bad action to show! It may not always be comfortable or timely or a joy. But "real" & "true" love is something else. Love is pure & from God & a blessing, but we are human-beings who get confused & struggle, but it isn't the love that is problematic-it's us... and other emotions and situations, so yes, there is betrayal, hurt, and sufferings, but those are not "Love" - it just means that loss and trials are painful sometimes. Love risks unsettling us from closed if protective comfort zones and areas we may not be well skilled but it is still good in and of itself & still always a good thing to have & give. Better to be able to Love and feel pain as well as joy than to not be able to feel anything or Love at all. Love is what makes life worth living! Without love there is a coldness & emptiness. (and Love isn't serial killers as mentioned and psychos and crap- that is toxic love/relationships and obsession and other problems-NOT Love.) posted il y a plus d’un an.

	JennaStone22 picked Yeah, in some situations we suffer too much: I got dumped. :'( posted il y a plus d’un an.

	Sinna_Hime_chan picked Nope, it's always a joy to l’amour: I'm sorry you got dumped :( posted il y a plus d’un an.

	PerfectWeapon_ picked Nope, it's always a joy to l’amour: Its not love that's bad, its the products of love. posted il y a plus d’un an.

	Chibi-Chipette picked Yeah, in some situations we suffer too much: My old crush had a girlfriend... posted il y a plus d’un an. last edited il y a plus d’un an

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