So. Why do some people dream of the person they DONT want to think about?

i think, if this makes sense, that not focusing on what (or who) we don't want to brings plus thoughts too us. consequently, we dream of what/ who more.

they dream about the person they dont want to think about because:
dreams are a way, a subconscious way of resolving problems.subconsciously as in, toi cant Control it and toi have no controll over it. so toi are obviously disturbed par this person one way ou another and when toi dream, its your minds way of wanting to resolve the problem.Or, your minds way of resolving the problem. so resolving the problem in this case is the dream.

dreams ARE totally random. i kno i have dreams that dont fit into anything that has happened during the day... i remember the night i had my first dream abt this guy i kindaish like...it made me realize plus thing abt my "relationsjip" with him. i've realized he's plus a friend than a bf. i think dreams kind of teach u things, ou help u decide upon hard things. the dream abt the person who u ont wanna think abt...i think it's your subconscious telling us that the person is someone to watch...that they are meant to be in our life for some reason bc they are invading our dreams....

I think the person that they don't want to think about is the person that they can't get out of their mind no matter what they do. Sometimes it seems like you're not thinking of that person but toi are acutally thinking about that person so much that that person enters your dreams.

i no this is not an answer but i have dreams lyk that all the time...eww MDR maybe its our subconscience telling us we lyk them...noooooo!!!!

Dreams are random. I've tried and tried to dream about the person I'm in l’amour with---I think about them all jour long, I think about them as I go to sleep--and I NEVER dream about them. Don't worry about it, dreams don't mean anything. Trust your conscious mind, not your subconscious. :)

dreams can be about anything really but usually people say if u go to lit thinking about that person that u will have a dream about them

I dream of the person i want to think about not the opposite

I think what it's trying to tell when toi have those kinds of dreams, is people can very well be different than they appear if you'd open your mind a little. I had a dream about this guy I thought I'd NEVER like. He had bushy hair and tried to act cool all the time and was never really nice to me. He was helping me to get away from evil Mickey Mouse(I watch too much TV) and took me to his house to hide. It was kinda nice. I feel lyk I still don't like him but then, sometimes I just think a little... =D

Like attracts like. People are used to thinking about what they don't want, and consequently a chain reaction starts. One thought leads to about 10 plus about what toi don't want.

u mite like them even if u dont know that u like them

I don't know why but last night i dreamed about i guy i wanna forget forever!!!!!!!!

PS. am a female/girl
is not me on the icone just wanna be clear i don't want people thinking am GAY

lol, how do u dream of the person u DO wanna think about??

People never control their own dreams.
Sometimes people dream of the last thing they
seen ou thought hardly of. If toi dream of
something toi don't want to think about, then you
can't control it but maybe it's a sign of
something.

Possiblably because your mind wants toi to remember why toi hate them so much. It also may be because toi want them to behave differently towards toi ou others and your mind trys to imagine that. (The latter happens to me all of the time.)

I took a class about dreams. & it states, That dreams are feelings our souls hold for a specific moment, thought, ou person. Some people such as me have completely aléatoire dreams. Such as "a person with a walrus head" ou something. This could be your souls way of telling toi about its feelings.

Dreams are usually ur subconscious talking.

toi can't control your dreams. Dreams usually are the way toi see them when toi sleep during events of the day. Som of em are pretty obvious, some of them just, don't make sense at all. But they relate to the events of the day.

Since it's your subconscious, in your head (in your case since toi dream about the person toi don't wanna think about) it usually goes on with the fact that u either wanna forgive, forget ou just randomly think about and so on.

And this is also a way of moving on. Beleive it ou not. It's just how your head works.

becoz they hate the person so much that even if they dont want to think abt them they keep thinking abt them and slowly it becomes an habbit to think abt them and then they think abt them so much that they start falling for them