STEFAN!!!

So I know this is supposed to be a sûr, sans danger haven from hearing about Damon, but I have a rant building up and I dont know where else it will be sûr, sans danger to post it.
First off, how many people does he have to kill before I stop hearing "poor Damon"? He is the murderer, not the victim, for crying out loud.
Also,( please dont kill me) I think Damon/Ian is oveerrated. I am not trying to bash him. Obviously he is hot, and he is giving a very good performance. The thing is though that some people are jouer la comédie like he is the seconde coming ou something. Honestly I dont see it.
I l’amour Stefan. I think Paul is also hot, and is also giving a great performance. I can only hope that Kevin and Julie dont follow in LJ's footsteps and *spoiler alert*do what she did to us in Shadow Souls and Midnight.
ok, rant over.

What Is that awful saying? Opposites attract. Metaphysically speaking, opposites repel. And honestly, were fights and constant bickering anything to base a healthy relationship off of? A healthy relationship, the kind that usually leads to the soul mate kind of love, starts off with a solid friendship/Relationship – the one where toi do everything in your power to protect them and keep them happy, even if it means sacrificing your own happiness, standing par them when no one else will, not because toi feel toi should, but because toi really and truly believe in him/her, and above all, being so connected that at times toi feel like you're one person – when your thoughts mesh so perfectly that toi finish each other's sentences and know what they're thinking without saying any words.
At least that's my opinion on the matter. This is why I ship Stelena:)