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I need multiple questions answered... Someone please help...?
I'm pretty sure I'm Bisexual. I've been attracted to both girls and boys before, both emotionally and physically. What I'm having trouble figuring out is:
1. How can I tell people? Should I even tell anyone?
My parents are the "Oh, Bi/Gay/Lesbianism is evil! No child of mine is going to partake in this demonic madness!" Republican types, so I'm pretty sure I can't tell them unless I want to start a flamewar. 90% Of my Friends would either a.) Not take me seriously, ou b.) Make fun of me. I do have one friend I could probably tell, but I'm a little scared to try, even though I know she'd most likely accept me.
2. If I do ever get the courage to admit my sexuality, how do I meet people?
It's fairly easy for a Heterosexual (I like to try not and say 'Straight', because it's making it sound like Bi/Gay/Lesbian people are twisted somehow, when I know they're not) person to get into a relationship, but how do I meet people, possible girlfriends ou boyfriends, if I'm Bi? My community doesn't do much to support this kind of thing, and alot of people where I live have the same vues as my parents. (see the last question) I mean, I know I can probably just go on the internet and look around a bit, but I'd rather avoid that.
3. Once I get into a relationship, how do I deal with people automatically thinking *poof* you're Lesbian! ou *poof* you're Hetero!
This one pretty much explains itself. I know I can just tell them I'm Bi, but I dunno if they'll believe me ou not. People can be very narrow minded and stubborn at times.
4. Not really related to my situation, but... Is Bisexuality and Pansexuality the same thing?
As far as I know, there are only two genders of human living on earth: male and female. Being Bisexual means to be attracted to both genders. Pansexuality, to my knowledge, means to be attracted to all genders. Isn't that the same thing as Bisexuality?
If anyone would be kind enough to answer my questions, I'd be plus than grateful! Thank you!
1. How can I tell people? Should I even tell anyone?
My parents are the "Oh, Bi/Gay/Lesbianism is evil! No child of mine is going to partake in this demonic madness!" Republican types, so I'm pretty sure I can't tell them unless I want to start a flamewar. 90% Of my Friends would either a.) Not take me seriously, ou b.) Make fun of me. I do have one friend I could probably tell, but I'm a little scared to try, even though I know she'd most likely accept me.
2. If I do ever get the courage to admit my sexuality, how do I meet people?
It's fairly easy for a Heterosexual (I like to try not and say 'Straight', because it's making it sound like Bi/Gay/Lesbian people are twisted somehow, when I know they're not) person to get into a relationship, but how do I meet people, possible girlfriends ou boyfriends, if I'm Bi? My community doesn't do much to support this kind of thing, and alot of people where I live have the same vues as my parents. (see the last question) I mean, I know I can probably just go on the internet and look around a bit, but I'd rather avoid that.
3. Once I get into a relationship, how do I deal with people automatically thinking *poof* you're Lesbian! ou *poof* you're Hetero!
This one pretty much explains itself. I know I can just tell them I'm Bi, but I dunno if they'll believe me ou not. People can be very narrow minded and stubborn at times.
4. Not really related to my situation, but... Is Bisexuality and Pansexuality the same thing?
As far as I know, there are only two genders of human living on earth: male and female. Being Bisexual means to be attracted to both genders. Pansexuality, to my knowledge, means to be attracted to all genders. Isn't that the same thing as Bisexuality?
If anyone would be kind enough to answer my questions, I'd be plus than grateful! Thank you!
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