Help! How do I tell my non christian boyfriend that I don't want to have sex until I'm married?

Well, toi can tell him nicely that you're not ready, plus toi and your boyfriend can have non penetrative sex which has nothing to do with sexual intercorse. But to do other sexual activities like Oral sex, Anal sex, Frottage, Mutual masturbation, Handjobs, Fingering ou even using sex toys like dildos, (used for females) artificial vaginas, cock rings (used for males) and others like anal toys and nipple toys. So if you're a virgin and toi don't want to have sex until you're married, this will be the best way to enjoy non sex with your boyfriend without any intercourse. I hope this helped. :)

I am really wondering, (but really not trying to sound mean... I'd like to help), why are toi dating a NON-Christain if your beliefs are so important to you? Do toi not want to SHARE beliefs ou be evenly yoked? Because this can come up in a lot of other "important" areas. I have always been open-minded. When I dated before marriage my husband was not Christain, and later became that way a few months into the relationship and before marriage, but respecting each others beliefs whatever they are, even if toi were NOT a Christain, there is respect and compromise... but no one should ask someone to compromise their spritual belief. There are people who are Christain and have sex before marriage and there are non-Christains who wait until marriage. toi have to be able to communicate and express your needs and tell him what toi want-you might as well practice that now as toi will be doing this in all future endevors and for healthy relationships. It really isn't fair if toi don't. toi need to "discuss" your vues on sex and what toi believe. He needs to know like toi do. toi say, "Hey, Love," after toi make him a nice dîner and tummies are all full and happy," Let's talk about sex!" smile, "I want to know what toi want and like and where toi are coming from, and I will tell toi my vues and what I want, okay? Sound good?" smile. The talk, can be serious and educational about each other, as well as warm and beautiful, AND insightful in good way... allow that to flow, nervous ou not, and simply express the importance toi place. Good Luck.

He will either propose
ou he will déplacer on
he may try to manipulate and convince
ou he will respect your desires.

Waiting is not for everyone, and toi may ou may not be loosing someone great - that is your desision, though toi should not compromise. It won't make toi less of a Christain, but toi must be true to your beliefs too. I understand toi do not want him mad, but when it comes to spiritual beliefs toi should not care. If toi are going to take your beliefs seriously then take them seriously-and it should not matter what ANYONE thinks... besides if toi say it with tendarness and l’amour then if he gets vexed, it is on him. Just do your part. Again, I wish toi well :)

Tell him toi don't want to catch anything

Just sit down and talk to him, tell him your not ready. If I were in his position I would appreciate the honesty. toi don't have to edge around and worry about how to convey it without anger and all that if toi set boundries and say what your willing to ou not willing to do. :)