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Why do some women seek ou need dominate controlling men?

I for one have put myself in compromising situations in the past and have also had unmentionable things happen not once but several times. but over and over i seem to seek relationships with dominate men who are quite controlling. now its all exploded into a big fetish n i have no idea why. is it because i feel im a survivor and i cant be hurt any worse then ive been in the past? mayb i get off on that??? grrrrrrrr.. IDK?!
 ilovekud posted il y a plus d’un an
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Vixie79 said:
It just depends on what toi mean par "domination."

In sex I find it stimulating to have my husband dominate me, but it goes both ways. We have our turns at it. Also rarely in those situation is the dominate one in control, it's infact the opposite. The submissive has allll the control. If it's any other way it's not kosher in the situation ou considered a concentual affair. There should still be a respect there at all counts.

Now, if toi are talking in all aspects in a relationship, that's completely different. If toi feel like toi are being minimized par your mate, toi probably should try another route. I feel outside and in the bedroom it should be equal and each partner has an independent role they play to make a healthy relationship work. If that balance is thrown off, the bateau is being rocked and you're going to have problems. If toi are plus independent as a person, toi probably shouldn't be with an over bearing man.

But, Some women however l’amour to be dominated par their men all the time and have no complaints. toi should never continue something that makes toi uncomfortable ou makes toi question your relationship. I'm not saying relationships won't have their ups and downs of course, but toi have to find a medium between each other somewhere.
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Thank You!! i appreciate toi taking the time and sharing this with me!!
ilovekud posted il y a plus d’un an
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You'r welcome. I hope it helped a little.
Vixie79 posted il y a plus d’un an
janaelee said:
I no how u feel there r things I stell think about at times.it was my x boy friend we l’amour animaux like me he l’amour almost every thing that I did and he was controlling too.
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