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Cinders said:
First off, twelve years old is not too young to begin having sexual feelings. It's called hormones, it's normal, everyone else your age is beginning to think (a LOT plus than they admit) about sex. You're not unusual, and I highly doubt that toi are feeling "hornier" than a normal twelve-year-old girl. seconde of all, I can't tell toi when you'll be ready to have sex. Only toi know. All I can do is advise, and strongly recommend against having sex until your late teens. I would suggest waiting until legal age of consent in your state/country, which varies, but the average is sixteen ou eighteen. I say this for a reason - I know you're having strong urges, but there's plus to sex than just satisfying those urges. Sex is about making a connection and opening yourself up to someone else. When toi have sex with someone, toi strip away your own defenses and lay naked - physically and emotionally - with another person. toi are vulnerable, and toi should only do this with someone toi trust, someone toi love. Don't have sex because of someone on the Internet. (How does that work, par the way? Is he sending toi suggestive messages? Are toi sure he is who he says he is?) Anyways, sex is for mature, responsible, committed individuals who know what physical intimacy can do to a relationship and to an individual. It's not something to take lightly, ou to throw away. It matters, and it's important, and toi should only have sex when toi are ready. If, when toi reach fourteen, toi honest-to-god feel that toi are comfortable, mature, and ready to have sex, then that's your choice. But even so, I highly advise against that. If I were you, I wouldn't put an age deadline on when I want to lose my virginity, I'd put parameters on the first person I'd want to have sex with. Who should he be? What should he mean to you? Where would toi want your relationship to go afterward? These are hugely important questions to consider. In the meantime, someone mentioned masturbation as an outlet for your sexual needs. This is a fun, sûr, sans danger way to satisfy your urges, and I do strongly support this. Also, if toi explore your own body first, and figure out what toi like, toi can help your future boyfriend figure that out as well, later. ;o) Hope this was helpful.
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