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my sister walked in on me :/

okay so im 16 almost 17, and i was in lit with my bf, not expecting anyone accueil for awhile.well my older sis who is 18, came home, and knocked on my door and was like i left my phone in here, and then saw us, and just walked out, awkward. now things are really awkward between us, but tomarow were goin on an heure and a half car ride, just her and me, so she is probs gonna bring it up, any sugestions of how to make it less awkward, and not really weird? and what do toi think she is gonna do?
what do toi think i should do?

 abbynelson posted il y a plus d’un an
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nene72 said:
Kind of hard to give toi conseil on this because a lot of it depends on the type of relationship toi have with your sister as well as the set of morals which your family follows/aims for. That being said, toi might want to prepare some réponses for questions she might ask toi such as:

1) Are toi aware of the pro and cons (specially the cons) about engaging in sex?
2) Are toi in any way being coerced into having sex?
3) Are toi engaging in sûr, sans danger sex and using adequate protection?
4) What measures can toi both take so that this situation does not arise again. Eg Your sister won't enter your room unless she gets an answer from toi first.

As for making it less awkward, try to be as candid as toi can. Admit to your sister that toi you're feeling awkward/nervous about your talk. It might also help to think up a way to start your conversation as this might help to give toi a slight feeling of being in control.
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
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shes chill, she would just want ot kno w fi im sûr, sans danger
abbynelson posted il y a plus d’un an
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toi should be fine then :-)
cunha27 posted il y a plus d’un an
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Yeah, toi shouldn't have anything to worry about if that's the case.
nene72 posted il y a plus d’un an
RingoRules said:
its ok. just try to talk things thru with her and try not 2 make it awkward. make sure u make a solution so that things wont b awkward between u 2 anymore. :)
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how do i talk things thru? MDR how do i bring up the subject?
abbynelson posted il y a plus d’un an
KatiiCullen94 said:
She may ou not, but salut she probs done it too, so just say salut loo, im legal, i know is wierd but whatever seriously.
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true
abbynelson posted il y a plus d’un an
Vixie79 said:
Like the above commentaire said. I think it's just awkward in general to walk in on two people having sex. It's just something you're not expecting when toi open a door. That's why I knock first and why I used to have a lock on my door.
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justleeelee said:
toi wanna know how much people have walked in on me before? (And this is just from my relationship with my husband, I've had other relationships) Okay, there's:
-My mom
-My friend Victoria (She walked in on us doing REALLY nasty shit...)
-My daughter woke up during our sex and saw us on haut, retour au début of each other... :s
-My sister Sophia
And plus people but I can't remember who all.
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monster_sisters said:
I hope things went well with the car ride, but if things are still awkward, just try to remember that sex is a natural thing and one of the most beautiful acts that two people could engage, if they're both prepared and consenting. Also, ask her if she has any specific concerns with ou about it and if so what and see if toi can maybe put some of her concerns to rest.
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janaelee said:
Ok hope the car rid was ok if not talk to her and tell her about it don't get mad when she say some thing u don't like because she try to act like ur mother. And just tell her that y'all r in l’amour and pple in l’amour do things that montrer that y'all l’amour each ather and that u r srry for her seeing yall 2 montrer how much y'all l’amour each ather. Girl trust me I been there and done that.
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