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please help! im panicking

i had sex with my boyfriend for the first time a few days ago, except we didnt have any protection. he used the pull out method and apparently was pretty empty from the night before. i dont keep track of my periods, so assuming i was in ovulation. what do toi suppose the chances of me being preg are? (please be nice, dont say thing like " oh well your defiantly preg, toi slut" ou similar. im really scared)
 ShakedaClemm posted il y a plus d’un an
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nene72 said:
Firstly, how long il y a did toi have sex and did he manage to pull out before ejaculating? If he did, toi most likely have nothing to worry about. I used the withdrawal method with my husband successfully for a couple of years (during my very religious stage). That being said, it is one of the least reliable methods of contraception, not to mention the fact it provides absolutely no protection against sexually transmitted diseases. But then unlike you, I wasn't too adversed about the possibility of falling pregnant. If he did not withdraw in time, ou even if toi just want to be sure and toi had sex no plus than 3 days ago, then toi can still go to the doctor and ask for the morning after pill. It's not as effective the longer toi wait, but it's still something. Oh, and while you're there, talk about all the different contraceptives available. I like the ring myself.
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
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I like your icone btw :-)
nene72 posted il y a plus d’un an
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The "pull out method" is a total gamble and IMO not a method at all. toi can still get pregnant par pre cum. It is a dit that it's plus concentrated than actual semen too.
Vixie79 posted il y a plus d’un an
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Nope, not very reliable, but still better than nothing and it did work for me for about 2 years. I don't recomend it at all unless you're in a stable relationship and don't mind too much if toi fall pregnant.
nene72 posted il y a plus d’un an
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thanks, but its too late for the morning after pill now...i'll just have to deal with whatever hand fate deals me
Deans_Girl posted il y a plus d’un an
kittencutie119 said:
First of all chill out girl. If toi don't keep track of your periods and i dont either just try and remember the last time toi had it and go from there. From the stuff toi told us I would say toi have a slim chance toi are preg so try not to worry. however if toi start experiencing signs just come clean and tell someone and get checked out but most importantly do not panic. hope i helped.
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thanks, im trying to stay calm it just hard
ShakedaClemm posted il y a plus d’un an
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sorry, but what kind of sign would i be looking for?
ShakedaClemm posted il y a plus d’un an
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um signs would be increasingaches in the lower digestion ou stomach area, swollen ankles, vomiting an unusual amount and anything else out of the ordinary involving your lower systems.
kittencutie119 posted il y a plus d’un an
VengeanceWolf said:
out of concern for I have to say that not using protection was pretty irresponsible, but take heart, toi should be fine I really doubt toi are pregnant however to avoid this problem in the future be plus cautious

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posted il y a plus d’un an 
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thanks, and i know it was so stupid, never again (with out protection)
ShakedaClemm posted il y a plus d’un an
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i had a friend once who did what toi did, she died in childbirth and so did the kid she was 15 so if i can help others i will
VengeanceWolf posted il y a plus d’un an
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urs is a good answer
kittencutie119 posted il y a plus d’un an
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thanks I guess
VengeanceWolf posted il y a plus d’un an
Vixie79 said:
If toi are pregnant, I suggest taking the morning after pill if it is not too late. It is only effective the first 5 days, but try to use it as soon as possible. The costs vary from 10 to 75 dollars. toi can get "Plan B" at a drugstore over the counter.

Now, if toi find that toi are not. Please go to the doctor and find out about good contraceptives to use to prevent pregnancy, if toi choose to continue to be sexually active that is. Also, if toi decide to stay sexually active I suggest on paying attention to your cycle. Ovulation begins 12 to 16 days after the last jour of toi last period and although every girls period is different; toi can still follow that schedule. Even though contraceptives are good to use they are not all 100%. So keeping tabs on all of it is a plus.

Here is the Mayo clinic website that gives toi information on signs of pregnancy.

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thank toi so much that was very helpful
Deans_Girl posted il y a plus d’un an
Deans_Girl said:
sorry if toi guys get confused i have 2 accounts, so some of my commentaires are from this account. but its the same person that asked the question


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