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Need Relationship conseil stat! >.<

so here's the story. I just started dating my bf he's cool and a real sweetheart...but i feel he's a bit clingy ou needy. i mean we were on the phone and he was like 'What are toi doing?' 'chatting' 'with other guys?!?!?' 'no' 'dont lie' 'im not' then like a few minutes il y a i was like 'hey babe im tired night' and i went to bed. Then he skypes me so i answer. 'hi baby what's up?' 'i thought toi were sleeping...and whats with half the cœur, coeur note?' (i had this note i put up a few months il y a that read without toi im half a heart...forgot to update it) 'i was...' 'dont lie to me babe.' 'im not and the note was up months ago' so i go to change it...but for some reason skype put the old one back. 'Why'd toi put half a cœur, coeur up again?! are u unhappy with me?' 'no. i l’amour you' then he went to bed...but would toi say hes needy? and what should i do to stop him from jouer la comédie this way?
 liakarad1 posted il y a plus d’un an
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Zeppie said:
toi say toi guys just started dating...so in my opinion, if he's jouer la comédie like that in the very beginning...then it does come across as odd.

It depends really how he says it. He could be just teasing and playing with you, but if toi feel like it's going beyond teasing, then definitely just tell him straight up that you're not comfortable with all the questions.
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
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thanks ^_^ and i also think he's not joking about it
liakarad1 posted il y a plus d’un an
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Then definitely tell him you're not comfortable with it. If he doesn't change his attitude then he's selfish and doesn't respect your wishes. Good luck with it all ^^
Zeppie posted il y a plus d’un an
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Well maybe ha has had stuff happen to him in the past and is afraid....Did toi ask him about his past relationships... Make sure toi are being fair also, he could have had something happen in the past and he is just really emotional. That might be why he does the things he does :)
LovableXNerd posted il y a plus d’un an
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Hmmm...he did say his ex cheated O.o
liakarad1 posted il y a plus d’un an
EgoMouse said:
What I would do: Dump him, he reminds me too much of my psycho ex-girlfriend that was too clingy. Couldn't stand her. Would not rendez-vous amoureux, date him even if he was good at sex ou something. Though, he's kinda cute in a annoying, weird cul, ass way.
My advice: I would find out if he had past relationships. He could of had a girlfriend(s) that cheated on him.
He's likely not ready for a relationship either way. Relationships without trust is a waste of time.
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
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thanks ^_^ and yes his ex (of 2 yrs) cheated
liakarad1 posted il y a plus d’un an
Book-Freak said:
I would call that controlling, not clingy! toi need to be straight with him about the boundaries of your relationship - not only is he calling toi a liar, but implying that he doesn't want toi talking to other boys, which he has no right to do. He needs to know that he does not need to know who toi talk to and cannot control who toi hang out with. If he can't respect this, toi should consider ending things with him.
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