well, l’amour is a feeling we can't help having. its like this big bright hole that toi suddenly find urself falling into.the light is blinding your eyes and toi can't see anything. toi feel like everything has changed. and then your eyes adapt and so do you. toi open your eyes and suddenly this whole new place pops out. everythings the same but different. suddenly the parking lot in front ur school looks like heaven. the stpid lamp post toi used to kick so often looks like an angel, the gods messenger. love, the slight touch of it changes everything.. toi find urself smiling alone, rêverie a lot even fantasizing.. it makes toi a better person.. although i'm not saying that l’amour is a necessary boon for us. all i can say is toi need to drop into the hole to find the light...