2.Gauge your date’s reaction to you. You'll need to do this quickly as the goodbye-kiss window doesn’t stay open for long. If you’re walking your rendez-vous amoureux, date accueil and they don’t let toi get that close to the door, take this physical distancing as a sign that a goodnight Kiss isn't such a great idea. If (s)he is eager to get the keys in the door, this too is a bad sign. Other red lights can include clamped lips ou a stubborn refusal to make eye contact. However, there’s a good chance that the signs won’t be as obvious as this. To give yourself the advantage in the moment, learn how to read body language so that toi can act fast and avoid any mishaps. Only make a déplacer if toi feel all is right.
3.Make a “moment.” Remember that in every goodnight Kiss scenario, you've got a limited window of opportunity to make your move. Create an "awkward pause" in the conversation. Studies montrer that people are uncomfortable with gaps of silence in conversation, so fill it with a smile and get ready to déplacer in for a kiss.
4.Maintain eye contact. If your rendez-vous amoureux, date steadily returns your gaze, consider it an invitation to smooch. If (s)he tries to maintain eye contact but breaks it before anything can happen, chalk it up to nervousness and try to create another “moment” if it isn’t too late.
5.Move in for the kiss. Keep it simple, especially if this is your first Kiss with your date. This means no tongue ou special moves; just turn your head slightly to the side, lean in slowly, and rock his ou her world! toi can place your hand on the small of their neck if toi wish.
If your rendez-vous amoureux, date is enthusiastic, toi may be able to turn the simple smooch into a longer, plus involved kiss. However, only do this if toi feel very confident about the cues you’re being given; when in doubt, err on the side of s’embrasser too little, as it’s better to leave them wanting plus than to make them regret s’embrasser toi in the first place.
If toi get the dreaded cheek turn, briefly apologize, laugh it off, and leave with your dignity intact.
6.Repeat if desired, ou if toi feel your rendez-vous amoureux, date getting into it. This may lead to being invited inside, but don't count on it
Tips
-If it seems like your rendez-vous amoureux, date is waiting for a while to go inside, Kiss her. She wants toi to.
-If toi feel your rendez-vous amoureux, date trying to déplacer away ou say "No," don’t press the issue. Simply ask if (s)he's okay; if the answer is "nothing" ou your rendez-vous amoureux, date has to think about it, just say goodnight, as your rendez-vous amoureux, date probably isn’t comfortable enough to admit it’s too soon to kiss. Never force a goodnight Kiss on someone.
-Add commentaires such as "Tonight was amazing" ou "I hope we can do this again sometime" (and montrer her that toi mean it) to make him/her feel special.
-When you're walking away, give a little glance back - chances are she'll be watching toi go.
-If toi want to be extra cute toi could even Kiss her hand ou forehead, but be wary of the forehead Kiss as some girls find it patronizing ou granddad-like.
Warning
-If your rendez-vous amoureux, date is facing the other way, do not grab his ou her head and turn it to face toi for the kiss. This is pushy and unromantic.
-Be wary of giving a goodnight (or first) Kiss in front of friends, whether they’re yours ou your date’s; this is meant to be a sweet and private moment, so keep it as exclusive as possible.
-Don't just go around s’embrasser anyone, anytime! toi may be charged with sexual assault if toi déplacer too aggressively.
