I think it is either Pocahontas or Mulan.

I guess... Most people would say Ariel, but I kinda think Merida would be one of these people who think she left her family for a man.

Or Pocahontas

Or Ariel - I can imagine them going and exploring the world together and just having fun

Possibly.

lol at belle in third.
she would like pocahontas being so natural and wild, then jasmine for being so fierce.
she wouldnt like mulan at all, she'd find her boring

or Pocahontas...

I don't know....

she would love that while Jasmine is girly that doesn't make her ladylike and proper but instead she is very rebellious and headstrong which Merida would really like.

they are both feisty and they can relate to not wanting to get married.

or Mulan