Damon & Elena Article: A Bamon Fan's Response to 'People Hating On Ian' (I Come In Peace)

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A Bamon Fan's Response to 'People Hating On Ian' (I Come In Peace)

posted by ducky8abug

A Fan's Response to 'People Hating On Ian'

Hi,

The auteur of 'People Hating on Ian' has adopted the notion that opinions diverging from her own are nothing plus than disgruntled attacks. I disagree.

We're all TVD fans and we can agree that we all l’amour the montrer to a fault. In fact, I think TVD fans are some of the most passionate fans out there and quite frankly, that's great; but I don't want to see that passion manifest itself into something its not. I don't want to see it manifest into this accusatory system pitting one faction against the other. Trust me, it isn't necessary. A lot of us (including myself) can do a lot better than that.

Anyway, where was I...expressing one's displeasure with an actor/actress' past performances ou a character's past transgressions is not an admission of hostility ou hate but a way in which one can express their feelings about the global, ensemble direction of the show/characters. Many of us, including myself, may use unorthodox methods to get that message across but in no way is it indicative of some deep-seeded hostility towards the actors themselves.

Please keep that in mind when addressing statements, posts ou articles par other fans (or par me for that matter). Speaking of which, a link to a Bamon article may give readers (within this forum) the impressions that something foul is afoot. I'm here to assure toi all that none could be further from the truth. The article and the réponses it received are nothing plus than expounded opinions.

Anyway, thank toi for reading.

TheExcorcist, HollyMarie and 3 others like this

katie15 Thanks for sharing. Though I have seen your comments on CW boards and some HAVE been personal attacks on posters. But thanks for trying to reassure us.

INLOVEWITHDAMON Firstly I would like to thank you for being respectful. Secondly I would like to once again elaborate on the fact that my frustration was not JUST based on that article. There was a whole different kind of drama on twitter yesterday regarding Ian as well. If other people chose to bring that article in the discussion that's their business, and it's separate from my thoughts. I never called out any individuals. You say it's not hostility towards the actors, but I say that's exactly what it is. Placing blame on the actor who doesn't share your view is wrong in my opinion. I think it was just yesterday when I saw someone here call JP a bitch and I asked them not to do that. I don't like it when any shippers try to place blame on the actors and writers, especially the actors, considering they have no control over what happens in the show. It's like people sending hate tweets to Kat after "Isobel" all over again. Anyway I understand that you don't agree with my premise so I'm not going to try to convince you of otherwise.

ducky8abug @Katie15: Yes, guilty as charged. I called all DE fans 'obnoxious little freaks.' I thought it was the best tactic against some unwarranted comments in a S/E thread. Not my finest moment, but none that could be helped at the moment. Anyway, thank you for reading and please keep in mind that we're all here to celebrate the awesomeness that is TVD.

ducky8abug @INLOVEWITHDAMON: I'm always respectful, even when appearances prove false. Anyway, your take on the article is a matter of interpretation. When we express our thoughts, some rely on emotion while others use objectivity. I lean towards the latter. I read that article and interpreted it as the author's displeasure in Ian's performances. Her article and subsequent replies revealed that she was displeased with Ian's past performances. She thought his performances were not as passionate in Season 2 as they were in Season 1. If you go back and re-read not only the article but the replies she received as well as her responses, you'll note that her answers correlate with what I am posting now. In fact, if you'd like, you are more than free to re-direct your attention to that article and review past statements. I guarantee there is nothing ingenious or hostile about it.

Aubreykarew I cant understand some sentences and words in d article but i dont like anyone bashing actors :(

ducky8abug @Aubreykarew: I understand and of course, you're free to feel that way. I look towards all opinions as a door towards ideas I've never even considered. Others may see it differently. Either way, its all good.

MissAllisonLove This is just too much. it's a free world

katie15 [i]This is just too much. it's a free world[/i] And your imput was needed because? ...

loveofdelena yeah, where trying to have a civil conversation here, and you should respect that, like your fellow shipper.

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WHY THE "VAMPIRE DIARIES"–BOOKS par LISA JANE SMITH LEAD TO DAMON AND ELENA AS A COUPLE IN THE END:

1 The development of their feelings for each other and of their relationship would make no sense otherwise; everything could have stayed like it was at the beginning. But the relationship of Damon and Elena develops further and further instead of sticking to how it was at the start between them. Their l’amour for each other becomes stronger and stronger, and this intensification of the feelings that they have for each other still doesn’t seem to stop any time soon.

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[b]Elena will always l’amour Stefan, no matter what she feels for Damon[b]
It is not because she will never unfell for him that she doesn’t l’amour Damon, her l’amour for Damon “consumes her”. Stefan is the sûr, sans danger choice, which is why she would rather choose him and not Damon who “sabotage things”. Damon and Elena only have four kisses, and she kisses him in 3x19, I mean toi can hate the ship but don’t deny it, If Elena doesn’t l’amour Damon as much as she loves Stefan ou even plus than...

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I have this strange feeling that after Damon realizes that Elena has not died died loool ,and that she has become a vampire ,he will keep to the promise which he made stefan and leave mystic falls ,without meeting Elena,i mean think about it the fact that a scene has been created where meredith tells Damon about the vamp blood ect ect has been done for a reason,i dont think he will stay,i mean come on there needs to be a twist its vampire diaries,i dont think elena will wake up remember what damon made her forget and then they meet straight away,i think she will remember and par that time he will be ...

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To clear things I hate Stefan but I 'I'll do try my best to be subjective ok, to start things off I'm écriture this article because how Caroline was bashing Damon in last night episode (3x04) I mean did she have loss her memories ou something did she forget that he almost died because he saved her life and her werewolf boyfriend , and before all of he saved her life did she forget that he saved Elena's life plus than once that he made plans and took...

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posted by WonderlandKills

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This is one of the most pathetic things I've heard a Bamon fan say, especially from a Bamon fan itself. From almost every Bamon fan I've come across, they seem to see Bonnie as the ultimate person on the show, they see her a godess, when in realitly she isn't that big of character, ou likable. For every Bamon fan, it seems that their favourite character is in fact Bonnie, what a suprise. Bamon fans can't get enough of her, just ask any of them, their favourite character will...

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posted by delenasalvatore

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A lot of us here have great ideas as to why DE should be together. Here's our chance to montrer the media exactly why it should be Delena. I've seen a lot of well thought out arguments, debates, and essays here so I encourage all of toi to participate in this contest :)

If toi are a fan of either Elena-Stefan ou Elena-Damon, write up an essay explaining why they are the couple of The Vampire Diaries. it to 350 words ou less, keep it civil (no tearing down opposing fandoms), and try confine your arguments to what we've seen so far on the montrer proper. (Source material is for sissies!)

Send your...