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PPPopopipop said:
I don't hate Stelena. I just think they are not right for each other. First of all, true l’amour doesn't happen the way they happened. First episode - I noticed you, I like you. Episode 2 - we kiss, we are dating, we are in love, all chiots & unicorns. Episode 6 - oh, you're a vampire. Ok, that's fine, I still l’amour you. No, the world doesn't work this way. Just...no. I don't believe in l’amour so rushed. I don't believe they really fell in l’amour - it might have been attraction, then all that danger & Supernatural stuff brought them closer, but I can nowwhere see the big epic l’amour everyone's talking about. They don't have fun. I can't stand it. Ok, they got like 5 funny scenes, but the rest was all about depression, missing, holding on to love, fighting against vampire's nature blah blah blah stuff. Come on! Isn't fun one of the biggest parts of love? Private jokes, laugh, flirty kisses, enjoying life...? Without all that there's no relationship. Period. Stefan doesn't care for Elena. I mean... he doesn't care enogh to risk huring her for her own sake. He's 150 years old. She's 18. He's supposed to guide her, to help her make decisions, to montrer her right direction. Instead, he's all "whatever toi want honey is fine be me, as long as you're not pissed at me". She's a kid, it's obvious he'll know plus about life & he should try plus to not let her make wrong decisions. He doesn't at all. And he even calls it respect for her choices.. Elena doesn't accept Stefan as a vampire. Ok, she gets he has to drink blood, even let him drink hers. She wants him to fight his ripper-nature. But she doesn't get that to avid ripper's come back Stefan has to feed of people. Not bunnies & puppies. Humans. And he has to learn to control his lust to not to kill. Somehow, Elena "loves" bunny-eater Stefan, but isn't able to get over the fact, that he needs human blood to never become ripper again, while bunny-eater can go crazy any time. Without full acceptance there is no love. All my main problems with SE, basically.
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