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I really need help... (Loneliness Advice)

I've been really upset with myself about being shy for so long and it's gotten in the way of so many things. Wanting friends, a girlfriend, my dream job. I can barely even speak to my own parents. I'm tired of living like this and it's been this way ever since I was born. I've tried many things: boost my self esteem, be around socialable people, etc. None of it works. I'm a full-on Christian and I l’amour God very much, but why did he make me full of social anxiety and be so shy? It's so bad that I think if I commit suicide, no one would notice I'm gone. I've eveb been considering it to myself for the past few weeks to be honest. Just please help me... I don't want to be shy anymore!
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Diazdiaz95 said:
Please don't commit suicide. I was very shy too and I'm still really awkward in social situations sometimes and I used to feel very lonely too but I not only prayed about it, I got involved in things that interested me. I entered my school's jouer la comédie troupe and just busied myself doing what interested me. Soon enough, I had Lost my stage fright and wasn't so shy around people. I started participating plus in church as well. I stopped feeling that loneliness I once had and I started meeting different people and coming out of my shell. It is ok to be a little introverted but toi can't let it control your life. The devil wants toi to commit suicide so don't give in to that. Find out what toi like about yourself and start building up courage to talk to people, it's fine if toi feel nervous but just do it because toi never know what my come out of it, maybe a friendship even. Find things toi like to do like sports and arts that can keep toi busy and help toi come in contact with other people. Seek other Christians your age. I don't know who toi are ou even how old toi are but I know that toi have a purpose and your life is valuable. toi have a friend in me, like in toy story:) Message me if toi want.
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Remember, theirs a light at the end of every tunnel.
Diazdiaz95 posted il y a plus d’un an
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Diazdiaz95 - this is a very good answer. -777- I agree with this - do not give up, seek Friends among those who are following the same bible principles as toi do. Talk to us on line. Asking this question is the first step - toi have made at least 2 online Friends already.
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ITF said:
Things will get better. I am shy and have no Friends but the animals. I can't talk to people either, about all I can say is yes and no. What ever toi do, don't kill yourself! The girl that toi will marry one jour is out there and Friends are not necessary. What about volunteering at a animal rescue? That helped me a lot. Also get a dog. I don't know what I would do without mine ou what he would do without me. And a dog would always miss you.
And it might help if toi did not watch ou read about killing ou other evil things.
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bratski2192 said:
Just pray, pray, pray, keep faith & trust in GOD. It's hard, but HE knows, not us. Trust in THE LORD, with ALL your heart, and lean not on thine own understanding; in ALL thy ways ACKNOWLEDGE HIM, AND HE SHALL DIRECT THY PATHS.~Proverbs 3:5-6 Keep that spark of hope no matter what!
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AnimeFan66 said:
First off, I think it is really, really great that toi are trying so hard to get out into the world and experience things for the long haul. That is very great of you. The seconde thing however is toi shouldn't blame yourself ou God for who toi are. My mom told me that even though I have Autism, I am considered a gift par God himself. I know it may seem silly, but it is the truth- she told me so. See, if toi were to understand what I went through growing up then I'm sure toi can relate to not only myself but other countless people who are going through the same difficulties. You're not alone after all- we all suffer from situations like this. But never be afraid okay? If toi need someone to talk to toi have your family there beside you. toi also have people here and even some near toi to comfort yourself and your soul. :) Be patient alright? I know it is difficult, but I think if toi keep trying and trying than I'm sure you're dream of opening up to the real world will come true. And I also pray to God that toi will soon open up and get over your shyness- I'll definitely pray for toi tonight. God bless you.
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I do apologize for this answer being too long. :P
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ShadowFan100 said:
First off, God didn't make u with this stuff. A lot of this may be due to how u grew up. And since I'm talking....

I, too, feel like this sometimes. I grew up rather....isolated. Socially deprived and such, so I believe I can relate to this.

2nd, please don't kill yourself. toi may miss a chance to speak out. Although, since ur struggling with this, toi may need God's help here. Ask Him to help toi out, give toi what toi need to be plus confident.
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MNGRRL said:
toi should always look to the Bible, Other than that just try talking to yourself in the mirror than déplacer on with be social from there.
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