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posted by RoisinKelly01

The jour before i went back to school i was in Claires Accessories. I saw a girl that im Friends with (from my school) and she was with another girl. The girl that was with her was wearing the coolest Superman haut, retour au début id ever freaking seen! I started talking to them. The girls name was Holly. She had short wavy/curly hair with tiny bits of light rose here and there. I asked houx what kind of musique she liked. "MCR." I was smiling like an idiot! My Chemical Romance is one of my favourite bands! "Ghost Town?" "Yup!" "Green Day?" "Hell yeah!"
houx was starting my school the suivant day. We were really good Friends up until last week. This girl called Lorna, started talking to Holly. I was ok with it, i was accepting Lorna coz her first an at secondary school was trouble. Lorna lied about having cancer. Lorna lied about her own dad being dead and she posts sad instagram photos of herself. "Oh how i wish i was like ye!"
Lorna walks out on her Friends but this time i thought shed grow up a bit.
Me and Lorna were in the same maths. On Monday at the end of maths she asked me if i wanted to go shopping with her and houx on Wednesday. I a dit if im allowed ill go. After maths was lunch. Holly, Lorna and i were talking about it but houx looked a bit confused, but ok with it. When i got accueil i asked houx if we could déplacer the jour to friday... and she flipped out. I thought she was kinda being a bitch. So i told Lorna about it. The suivant jour in school Lorna a dit it was only supposed to be her and Holly. I was ok with it. So houx wasnt being a chienne after all. But then thursday came and toi can just guess what happened now.....
Yup, houx found out about me calling her a bitch. I explained it to her. She didnt care. I cried that night. People like her are rare where im from (Ireland). I tried friday night but got a load of shit again. The last thing i sent her was; Fine then, bitch. I told lorna what happened. "It wasnt my fault!"
I blocked them both. I want to be Friends with houx but shes ignoring me. Help.

glelsey I'm sorry to hear about what happened. It sounds like you and Holly have some common interests and I'd love for you two to be friends. It sounds like (from what you've written here) that this all happened over a little misunderstanding. First, it might be a good idea to unblock them so you can communicate with them again. Either this, or make sure you have some other way of communicating with them. Are you able to speak with them face to face at school? Second, at the beginning you mentioned that you first met Holly when she was with another friend of yours. Have you spoken to that friend about all this? She might be able to help you out. She could listen to the problems you've had and might help you to explain how it was all just a misunderstanding. If you have a friend by your side who can help stand up for you, it'll be easier to convince Holly (and Lorna) that you really are a good person and you just want to start off fresh. Third, remain calm. I know it's easy to get angry with people who are making assumptions about you, but try your best to be polite and friendly, and don't call them names. It seems like you're trying to apologise and get through to them, and that's good! Continue to be nice to them, and see if they are nice back to you. If they are, keep it up and you will develop a great friendship with them! If they aren't going to be nice to you, then maybe you're better off without them anyway. So, in short: 1. Find a way to speak to them 2. Make sure you have a friend by your side who understands your situation 3. Continue to be friendly and kind towards them I wish you the best of luck. Hopefully you can work things out and become friends again. :)

RoisinKelly01 The friend that i saw holly with said she didnt want to get involved when i tried to tell her. :( I tried to explain the situation to holly and she just wont listen. i just cant be friends with lorna i actually cant trust the child.

glelsey Well hey, at least you tried to be a good friend. :) In this case, I'm seriously starting to think you're better off without them for now. Spend some time with a true friend who will cheer you up, and do things that you enjoy doing to take your mind off of this. Maybe someday you and Holly can be friends, but if she won't listen to you at the moment, perhaps leave it for a while? She might just need some time to think things through or calm down. If she never does, you're better off just enjoying life with your true friends. After all, do you really want to be friends with someone who refuses to listen to you after a little misunderstanding? Anyway, hope you have a good weekend. Take care, and do something you enjoy doing. ^^

RoisinKelly01 Thanks a million!

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Listen to your cœur, coeur

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never settle for less than your best

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l’amour

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conseil

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Always smile and enjoy the short life toi have, just because it's yours =)

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Better Than Ezra: "A Lifetime"

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Ronan Keating: "I Hope toi Dance" (Cover)

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A cover of Lee Anne Womack's song, also posté here.

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A carrot, an egg and a cup of coffee

posted by Shandy

Coffee beans

This is an email that my mother received and I thought that I'd share it with all of you.

A carrot, an egg and a cup of coffee.

A young woman went to her mother and told her about her life and how things were so hard for her. She did not know how she was going to make it and wanted to give up. She was tired of fighting and struggling. It seemed as one problem was solved, a new one arose.

Her mother took her to the kitchen. She filled three pots with water and placed each on a high fire. Soon the pots came to boil. In the first pot she placed carrots, in the seconde she placed eggs, and in the last...

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Shine

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Sayings

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rejoindre LBA club!!!

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My black life

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I was born
though i shouldn't be
I should have died
I would have died
but i didn't

It would have been better for me to die
and leave this world behind me
it's full of liars and fear

I nearly died twice
Why didn't I?
I would feel so much better now

I would never have been betrayed
by three guys
I would never have seen my mom
lying on the floor and trying to kill herself
I would never have heard my parents
having huge arguments everyday
I would never have known what it's like
to live without money
I would never have been the daydreamer
everybody makes fun of

But then I thought god would have mercy
he sent me one...

Born to be Awesome

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Untitled Poem

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I wrote this a while ago, and since it seems to be nothing but a series of advice, I figured... what the hell? I think I was listening to LeAnne Womack's "I Hope toi Dance" at the time because that's what it sounds like.

When toi look up at the sky, don't do it just to see if it's raining
When toi find it is raining, don't run indoors and hide
When toi get your hopes too high, don't say you're overrated
When toi walk down par a river, don't be afraid to get your feet wet
When your feu goes out, don't blame it on the wind
When toi watch the sunset, don't think the jour is over
When toi reach out to...