Being bisexual isn't all fun and games.
In fact, it can be incredibly hard. The first time I ever came out, I was terrified. Luckily, the person I told- my mom, was understanding and supportive. But not everyone is like that. I cannot express my anger when I get commentaires like, "wow, that must be so hard" and "does that make you... like, lesabian AND straight?
What people don't really understand is that we are not really different. We're different like different religions. Sort of the same, sort of different. We aren't a seperate species, and we aren't bad ou harmful.
Also, we are aware of the insults people give us. One of the most hurtful things toi can say to someone who is GLBT is, "that's sooooooo gay!" Because toi might now know that they're GLBT. I know this firsthand. A lot of my family are very religous Catholics, and they don't accept that I'm bi. They refuse to talk to me, post anti-GLBT stuff on Facebook, etcetera. And it really hurts. But I have to be the better person and not be rude to them.
So I guess what I'm trying to say is that being bi IS really hard. toi should be careful with gay jokes, ou don't use them at all, and understand that GLBT people have a harder time than toi do about being straight.
Just remember that we're all people, and our differences don't really matter.
In fact, it can be incredibly hard. The first time I ever came out, I was terrified. Luckily, the person I told- my mom, was understanding and supportive. But not everyone is like that. I cannot express my anger when I get commentaires like, "wow, that must be so hard" and "does that make you... like, lesabian AND straight?
What people don't really understand is that we are not really different. We're different like different religions. Sort of the same, sort of different. We aren't a seperate species, and we aren't bad ou harmful.
Also, we are aware of the insults people give us. One of the most hurtful things toi can say to someone who is GLBT is, "that's sooooooo gay!" Because toi might now know that they're GLBT. I know this firsthand. A lot of my family are very religous Catholics, and they don't accept that I'm bi. They refuse to talk to me, post anti-GLBT stuff on Facebook, etcetera. And it really hurts. But I have to be the better person and not be rude to them.
So I guess what I'm trying to say is that being bi IS really hard. toi should be careful with gay jokes, ou don't use them at all, and understand that GLBT people have a harder time than toi do about being straight.
Just remember that we're all people, and our differences don't really matter.
Hi guys! If any of toi want to talk, vent ou just get things off your chest, please let me know! Many times i had to talk to one of my friends. I felt so much better afterwards! We all need somebody to turn too once in awhile and i hope toi consider me! i'm Cassidy86 and just want toi to know that i'm here for you! everything will stay between toi and me! I promise! this is just the seconde mois of a new year, i wish everyone the best for 2011. If i can offer any advise to anyone, please let me know. Wishing toi all well! y.f, Cass~
1. Live life to full, like there's no tomorrow. -Because toi never know.
2. No dream is so small ou big, that it can't be accomplished.
3. Keep your Friends close - toi never know when toi will need them
4. Don't dwell on the past, live for the future - what's done is done
5. It's not your fault - Whatever happens, happens. It's fate, and toi can't change that.
7. The night is darkest just before the dawn - Things will get worse, before they get better. learn from your bad times.
8. Everyone is different, and equal. - your awesome, in your own special way
9. Remember - toi ARE LOVED
10. if toi l’amour something let it go
11. be yourself
12. It's your flaws that make toi beautiful - toi are beautiful the way toi are
2. No dream is so small ou big, that it can't be accomplished.
3. Keep your Friends close - toi never know when toi will need them
4. Don't dwell on the past, live for the future - what's done is done
5. It's not your fault - Whatever happens, happens. It's fate, and toi can't change that.
7. The night is darkest just before the dawn - Things will get worse, before they get better. learn from your bad times.
8. Everyone is different, and equal. - your awesome, in your own special way
9. Remember - toi ARE LOVED
10. if toi l’amour something let it go
11. be yourself
12. It's your flaws that make toi beautiful - toi are beautiful the way toi are