How do toi get a friend back from another friend that is taking her away?

My friend is bein taken away and I hate the girl, she is goin off with im younger than 13! and I dont understand at all she hates me however, If a friend takes me away from her she cries and takes me back and gets annyoed but when she does it I dnt ou cnt do anything, They make dances up and stuff. Im crying Please help I dont have any friends, I found out I only had Friends cuse she was VERY popular. IM SICK OF HER. PLEASE HELP
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The same thing is happening to me exept i dont hate the girl but its like shes trying to take away my best friend at first i didnt really notice but noow that i do i notice that they go over each others houses go swimming and they also text each other alot
cutiepie410456 posted il y a plus d’un an
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me 2....
chumio posted il y a plus d’un an
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The same thing happened to me too!! I had my first bff and then one girl Stealed my bff and i didnt want to lose her and i decided tobe three bffs And fall is in i was thinking who im i gonna sit today with? And i thinked then BAM!my 2 bff s were sitting together and gosipping my first bff was soo good and very like a god. Then. The sond stupid bff turned her into with OMG I HATE MY LIFE THEY A RE HANGING WHILE I M SICK OOOOOMG SHE IS SOO FUCKING DEAD IM NEVER GONNA BE Friends AGAIN
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rebeccamoon101 said:
Tell her what toi feel.Simply tell the truth and if she is a good friend and understands,then everything will be fine.But if she doesn't understand then she isn't such a good friend and only cares for herself.You will know par her answer whether she is a good friend,or whether there is someone else out there who will be a much better friend.
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Also tell her that what she feels when toi get pulled away;she might understand then
rebeccamoon101 posted il y a plus d’un an
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this has really helped
daisythecat posted il y a plus d’un an
graystone said:
Tell your friend you'd try to get around with her other friend. Give it try and if toi can't adjust being around her, just tell your friend that it hurts toi and about how toi feel. Also, try mentioning that its not really fair that when toi hang out with your friend then she can just be annoyed with toi and when it's vice-versa, she expects toi to deal with it.
Good luck :)
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fanmaniac said:
Whenever ur friend is on their own then say something to make them laugh, however if they are never on their own then arrange a rendez-vous amoureux, date to meet with them.

Talk to the person who is taking ur friend away, treat them really nicely and make them feel sorry for toi without saying anything about friendship.

If toi know that whatever toi do toi will not come to peace with the person taking your friend away, then simply pretend that toi are their friend, for example; if toi see them walking around together then help yourself and go and rejoindre them!

Have a party ou something! Invite your friend and the person taking your friend away to your house for a sleepover ou something like that.

make some new friends, that will help toi no matter what.
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
mango5210 said:
i think toi should déplacer on thats what i did i had the same problem too i still cry tooso listen to me and just déplacer on for plus deatails email me at mango521@live.com
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_Blackhearts_xx said:
If the person is able to take your freinds away, then they arn' yuor freinds to begin with.
I'd say maybe try and meet new people.
and still stay in touch with the Friends who actually are your frineds.
and for that idiot thats taking your freinds. let her be a bitch, its her problem when everyone leaves her cause she wont be populaire forever :)
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Usui--takumi said:
toi must be 13+ to rejoindre this site.
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
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ok... what does THAT have to do with this?!?!
HotCupcake436 posted il y a plus d’un an
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@hot: She a dit she is younger than 13. Well, she is not allowed to rejoindre this site. It's against the law of fanpop.
Usui--takumi posted il y a plus d’un an
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bad answer... and, that is not the problem... stupid
Chatleen posted il y a plus d’un an
daisythecat said:
this is happening to me its so not fair and she has to go in for lunch early and she always takes my bestfriend so i have no one to sit suivant to someone please help both of us
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
Lisa02127kj said:
Oh, dats realy bad, it hapened 2 me too. Just try 2 convice ur frend dat dere r smthings she enjoys with u only. Lyk i wud talk all jour with my frend(abt lots of things, im not gonna tell u, its secret) i kno she is missing u too. on d other hand crying is gud...it helps 2 shake up d bad stuff off ur mind nd think plus clearly. GUD LUCK ;)
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
princess19121 said:
Hi just tell her how toi feel .and tell her not to be a jerk. and when another friend takes toi away tell her not to be such a cry baby if she cant handl it then why should you.just give her a piece of her own medicin.
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iloveciel said:
Just talk to her about it,tell her how toi feel about her hanging out with Ms.Popular :) And if she doesn't want to talk ou doesn't care...maybe its time to find another friend because thats not what a true friend would do :(
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Rubydhanraj said:
I know how ur feeling cause i used to go through this problem.I had a problem but know not anymore cause she had came crying for to be my best friend again and i forgive her because we were best Friends from a long time so just wait for her to come back to u k
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karleigh54 said:
Well I think toi should just try to find someone else and try to be there friend
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lord1bobos said:
before answering this question toi should notice something
1- may bb ms populaire because she hates toi and she want to see toi alone
2- this girl will try to make your friend mad of toi and she will tell her bad things about toi
and these are another problems

and to solve this problem
toi should montrer people and your friend that toi don't hate this girl and toi should treat her good so your friend will see that toi are not bad with this girl and will think again about that girl
toi DO NOT KNOW WHAT toi HATERS ARE DOING
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chumio said:
I have the same problem. My bff melissa's old bestfriend joined are school.We had this one problem that screwed up are friendship but we managed to become Friends again.Still....she goes to katherine plus then me. I have to admit I get a little jelly. T^T......I feel like I'm loseing her.I tried to make her gelée of me par making her feel like I don't need her. -.- trust me that was tough.But it didn't work.......AND THAT OTHER GIRL KATHERINE HATES ME....AND SHE DOESN'T WANT ME TO HANG WITH MELISSA!...-.- they also keep secreats from me. And katherine was trying to convince melissa not to be my friend. >.> some may say get a new bff.....but we have hard history....only bad part....katherine has plus history...............glahhh.......
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lpsforever44 said:
same but im Friends with the girl all u have 2 do is be nice to the both of them then start a conversation longer and longer each jour ou say looking good ou nice hair when u walk par thnx 4 lire :)
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
kattymissy4ev said:
I have the same problem. They thing with mine though, is that toi need to be best Friends with the stealer. I was best Friends with her but then left her cause my old BFFL was Lost and alone. That's how I got missy back. What toi need to do is grab the chance whilst toi have the chance. If toi do P.E ou something at school always ask ur of BFF if toi wanna be partners with her first. Arrange things with each other. Like say to her: Hey. BTW my mam arrange with ur mam that ur coming to my house on Saturday ( ou whenever (0) and where going swimming. Wanna come cause I get so bored nowadays. Or, pretend toi have a sore tummy and cry infornt of her. That way, she will be like: awwww my poor best friend! Here, come sit suivant to me!!! Also, get best friend charms for just u and ur old BFF. that way the stealer will get jealous. To jealous for ur BFFS liking! ;) (winks) . Also, make sure all the time ur partners together. Like cheat ou something. Make sure u sit suivant to her in class ou wherever. But also, don't keep that clingy to her. Remember, everyone needs their space. Hope this hes and GOOD LUCK!!!!!
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fanoffriends22 said:
I feel toi sister. I have the exact same problem right now. But I've learned that toi can either be sad about it, ou déplacer on with your life and dignity. Find some new friends! ou if toi are absolutely positive that she is the only friend toi can ever have, than talk to her about it. Maybe if she figures out about how toi feel she'll try to include toi more. I hope this helps you.
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ZiyaRaiSen said:
well i have almost the saMe problem..but the thing is the girl who is taking my bestfriend seemz rili nice..i feel rili jealous but cannot say ou do a single thing coz the girl is nice with me..just few days il y a my bestfriend used to sit with me for a class and now she asked me to sit with sm1 else coz she finds that gal interesting and fun..m felt rili bad n jealous but cannot do a single thing...
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
Catherine51197 said:
Its good to branch out to others & make new friends, so its good that your friend has done that. Try not to be too jealous &/or upset. The best way to get around those feelings is to go rejoindre them & if toi have trouble adjusting, tell your friend exactly how toi feel. If she doesn't care, then she's obviously not really a true friend. So if this is the case, then don't be afraid to step out of your comfort zone & befriend others. People will want to be your Friends if toi do make the effort :). Good luck :)!!
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Sophster6H said:
I think this is happening to me right now, it has before (by the same girl!). Don't worry, it gets better. Anyway, just follow them around. Make jokes and act like you're all Friends together. This girl may hate you, but pretend toi don't hate her. (Do toi hate her? toi must if she's taking your BFF away from you)

As for the dance bit, ask if toi can join. If they say no, ask, "Why?" the girl who's taking away your friend will probably say something like "Oh, it's only meant for 2 people." Just block everything she says. Make dead ends, like toi HAVE to rejoindre and toi WILL, because toi DO have to rejoindre and toi WILL, right?

Anyway, best of luck, OP! Remember, if she's your best friend, she'll stick par you, right? :)
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problemsrmylife said:
The same thing is happening to me but don't worry your not alone just remember everything will get better and just be yourself
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pinkbem628 said:
My best friend Giuliana and her new BFF Fran were best Friends since 1st grade. In 3rd grade i starting hanging out with Giuliana. Giuliana kept Fran as a best friend and still always hung out. This an Fran starting hanging out with Giuliana and my friend, Giuliana a dit that Fran a dit to her NEVER TO HANG OUT ou TALK TO ME EVER AGAIN!!! Fran hates me and is taking my BFF away!!Over the summer I find myself hanging out with Giuliana and Giuliana a dit that she hates Fran and a dit she will never talk to her again beacause i didnt like her!! The best thing to do is wait and ur friend will come back to u

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abbixxx said:
Well to be honest I know it's really upsetting to be loosing a best friend but if toi really want to get your best friend back there is no point just hating her new friend ...that won't get your best friend back. toi should try and make Friends with this girl. Get involved in the activities they do and toi might not just get your friend back but make a new friend too. Hope this helps and remember never give up on a friendship toi still want! :)
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RobertsFamily3 said:
I hope toi have backup friends, because once your friend is stolen, you're never getting him/her back. (Is the stealer's name Laira? Then she's dominating the universe and toi should try to force your friend NOT to hang out with them.)
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love_life05 said:
I think u just gotta act casual.
par me the Same is happening 😒 it's pretty hard to go through
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hatesomegalss said:
It's happening to me my best friend which I've known since being a baby we grew up together is being stolen this other girl is texting lots and lots when naming her Friends she put her in front of me they sit together and leave me on my own and walk of to dîner without me and I thought I was the one she trusted the most but all her biggest secrets she's telling to her first I hate it but is what toi should do is act like toi don't need her if she really cared she would come after toi and find some new Friends see what her reaction is montrer her toi have other options not just her
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gujnhk said:
I had that, my friend's old best friend keeps on taking her then getting in arguments with me. And she is (my friend) oblivious to it and plays us both.So when me and her are in an argument she goes to her old best friend and when she and her old best friend get in an argument she comes to me.And really i think toi need to make plus friend so if this happens again toi have others (like I have to do). :] but try to déplacer the old friend away and get closer to your best friend

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umihavettertodo said:
salut the same thing is happening to me it all started when the girl started sitting with us at lunch then my best friend stopped talking to me and went to the best friend stealer to talk to and i was sitting there at lunch not talking to anyone then me and my best friend walk together at lunch then she started ditching me and went with the best friend stealer i don't have any other Friends so i sat alone at lunch everyday then once i followed her to lunch she saw me sitting suivant to her but didnt bother talking to me then i wrote this long text after that we started fighting alot then best friend she started spreading rumors about me saying i would hit her to the best friend stealer i HATE NATALIA AND ALWAYS WILL but now she has this other girl named bri she a volé, étole her and so the two people and best fiend became a threesome and i was the lonely I HATE NATALIA QUIRK BRIANANA PANGIA F*** them all And they r turning her goth
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milliemilie said:
same is happening to me but the girl who is taking me and my friend away has done this to other people and I'm only 10 I've tried everything but its not working toi should just try to play with her again and if she says back off stand up to her ou tell a teacher it might help. if its so bad tell your mam,dad ou family members it can help a lot coz they know what to do I promise they do but idk if this will work what I'm telling toi just try it.
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cutecake2007 said:
My first real friend abandoned me but try having a lot of play dates also try stealing her back par making yourself plus interesting. Even if toi have to lie. toi have to try.
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