The decision should be simple we both like each other (please help don't know what to do)

Let me say in advance sorry I wrote so much but the conseil is really needed so if toi have the time please read the following (thanks):

So I'm 15 and a junior in high school. And I like the one guy at my school who I am also pretty good Friends with. I think that he might like me. Last an at the beginning of 10th grade I liked him and then found out that he liked me. The problem that I am having is that I am extremely closed off emotionally and just in general to the world. So last an when I liked him and he liked me he never knew and no one new because I was to scared to tell anyone. So we could have gone out but of course because I made sure that no one knew that I liked him. And basically about half way though the an he got over me and moved on and I basically let him slip through my fingers. After a while I sort of moved on I guess and he got a girlfriend who was actually one of my Friends but I noticed I really didn't care partly because I had a lot of other things going on at that time I was pretty depressed so it barely even registered. But now I like him again and I'm pretty sure that he likes me again. But this time I have another big problem I feel like because I am emotionally closed of to the world that I may not be ready for a boyfriend right now. My Friends seem to think that we should go out they keep asking me if he asked me what I would say and though they don't know that I like him. I a dit that I would consider it. So I really don't know anything for sure but if I'm right and he asks me out I don't know what I should say. I can't decided if I should say no I'm just not ready for a boyfriend right now. ou yes and just see what happens. The other thing that is making me maybe want to say no is that we are really good Friends and I don't know if that would change and I really like how things are with us. But it does seem like we have always had this thing around us that we should go out. I am just really confused. So if toi have any conseil for
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jedigal1990 said:
okay here are my thoughts if he asks toi tell him how toi really feel tell him toi want to but your not sure your ready and try it for a while just take it slow if he cares for toi like it sounds like he does he will understand discuss with him what the suivant step should be if there should be any change anyway thats what i would do hope it helps and i really hope everything works out for toi best of luck.
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