Trouble with sister?

I'm 14 and my sister is 12 and I try not to let it, but everything she does seems to annoy me.

I try talking to her to see her point of view but all she does is repeate what just a dit in a whiny voice ou makes really rude, hurtful remarks that are not relevent to the conversation at all such as "you have no life" ou "your ugly".

how do I get her to speak with me reasonably and how do I stop all the little things from annoying me so much?
 moo000 posted il y a plus d’un an
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HuddyBrave said:
Me and my sister do that sometimes and what I do is first I calm down and then I do something to take my mind off of the whole thing and then I polietly talk to her about the things that bother me. Something else I would try is spending time away from her. When my sister and I spend too much time with her I get annoyed at everything that she does so then I take some time away and usually when I come back I dont get annoyed at her as easily.

Hope I helped!! :)
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cuteinblack6 said:
first toi should relax. it seems like toi are going through lots of stress. toi should talk to her par saying nice things at first than get to the point.
Example: "um sis? can i talk to you? um im sorry if im being rude but can toi please not (what ever she is doing.)? im sorta going through a hard time. ok?"

toi should do what ever things toi like to relive some stress. i personally listen to music, but toi could do things like scream, go on fanpop ou watch some TV.

if it gets too serious, toi should talk to your parents.

hope that helped!

~CUTEINBLACK6~
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 first toi should relax. it seems like toi are going through lots of stress. toi should talk to her par saying nice things at first than get to the point. Example: "um sis? can i talk to you? um im sorry if im being rude but can toi please not (what ever she is doing.)? im sorta going through a hard time. ok?" toi should do what ever things toi like to relive some stress. i personally listen to music, but toi could do things like scream, go on fanpop ou watch some TV. if it gets too serious, toi should talk to your parents. hope that helped! ~CUTEINBLACK6~
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prisonbreak247 said:
She could actually look up to toi and that's probably why she is constantly annoying you. She may just want your attention. Try to put yourself in her shoes for a day.
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sweet_n_silly said:
my brother and I are liek that all the time. what helps me is to spend a whole bunch of time away from him doing my own thing. then I don't have to suffer through it for as long. I'm not sure how to get him to stop though
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samoangirl96 said:
okay first be luck that toi not put in my place.
I'm the oldest of three younger sibs i'm 13 my younger brother is 12 my third youngest sis is 9 and my other sis is 7. they all make me mad they only have a little respect for me and when i try talking to them i feel like i'm talking to a brick wall........ 8 feet thick. the only time they ever listen to me is when i have to yell at them which is a lot. toi know we always call each other names like ugly, fat, stupid, and what not. sometimes i wish that they were never born.......but then i think how boring, and dull my life would be without them, sometime toi just got to put aside all of that and just try to get a good word out to them tell them that toi l’amour them(even though it may be hard).so just try to talk things out toi know act like real sisters ou brothers. plus they are toi brother and sisters you'll l’amour them no matter what.<3
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