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sarabeara said:
toi have got to be blunt and brutally honest with your ex (Not saying to be mean, just tell her exactly how toi feel). Tell her that toi don't want to get back in a relationship with her because toi like someone else now and if the relationship didn't work the first time, it probably won't work the seconde time. Tell her that what toi had is now over and that you're over her.
Now, the harder part is being in l’amour with the best friend thing. My honest conseil is to wait a few months. I know a few months seems like an EXTREMELY long amount of time to wait to tell someone toi like them, but trust me, it's worth it (If toi are truly in l’amour with her, then that won't change after the few months is up). If toi find that toi don't like her as much after the months have passed and toi find yourself attracted to someone else, then toi luckily didn't jeopordize your friendship, and toi can now go on like it never happened. However, if toi still feel exactly the same after the couple of months, then tell her how toi feel about her. But be careful when taking the plunge: there's no going back. Your friendship is officially changed from that point forward. The main thing to ask yourself is "is it worth it?" Do toi honestly think you're going to spend the rest of your life with her? Cause if not, then it's not worth it. If toi two break up, toi lose not only your lover, but your friend (I'm not saying that if toi break up it'll be impossible to still be Friends after, it'll just be verrrry complicated). Are toi willing to risk it all for a silly teen crush? (I'm assuming you're a teenager, sorry if I'm wrong lol) :)
I hate to sound like a downer, but it's the truth. Trust me, been there, gone through all this shit.
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