What would toi do?

Ok so I am a loner who rarely goes out with Friends but now I have been really exited about going to the cinema with a bunch of Friends (10 ppl) and I have been anticipating it. Now my mom told me that the exact time there is a meeting with the people who are going to be on my group on a programme I take part in and I am one of the 4 kids from my country to participate this year. I don't really care about my teammates since I go for the trip and to see Portugal (this is where we will go) and I was planning on trying to stand the other people and the awkwardness, since I do not really intend 'getting to know them' and socialize and bond and all that crap that the whole thing is actually about.Yet, my mother thinks that I can't skip the meetings and if I do I should drop out of the programme. So miss all the fun, ou be irrersponsible and have a bad start with the guys and also make my mom think twice for paying a lot of money for me to go there?
 fake_alibi13 posted il y a plus d’un an
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sehdt said:
Difficult problem however toi know the consequences of which ever toi choose so all toi need to decide is which consequence toi feel toi can live with go with that one. Hope that makes sense and helps you.
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
CrystalMirage said:
Well, the way that toi put it at the end, I think that toi shouldn't be irresponsible with your actions.

Everything that toi do has some sort of consequence to it, no matter what. Something is bound to happen at certain points, and it's beyond our control. I understand that toi a dit that toi were a "loner", and that you're looking vers l'avant, vers l’avant to going to the cinema with friends, but toi joined this "program" and shouldn't just drop it. Personally, I think that if someone joins something, they should go through with it. It's not a good thing to just rejoindre it and then "half-a**" it, as my mother would describe it.

If toi can, see if toi can ask those Friends of yours for another jour to go to the movies. If this isn't possible, then plan some other time to do something. There's so much plus to do than to watch a movie with friends, like go to the mall ou have a big sleepover. I think that it would also be enough to just spend time with them at their own home, ou at yours.

It's difficult and there might be a stubborn side to this, but toi can't push aside responsibility. Doing that, even just once, could make toi do it time and time again. It's not good to keep bad habits like that in the future, especially when toi get a job. There's no excuses at that time if toi miss a meeting. I also think that attending will build yourself a better character and, overall, you'll be better off that way. Just know that there are plenty of other opportunities for toi and your Friends in the future to make plans.

Good luck to you, and feel free to ask any other questions that toi may have.
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
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Ok the "loner" part isn't the 'I am so alone an emo' ou the 'I am so aléatoire crazy and antisocial' thing iI really enjoy solitude and usually find going out troublesome so they try to encourage me to go out plus because that's what kids of my age do... Thanks for your conseil anyway :)
fake_alibi13 posted il y a plus d’un an
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Oh, no, I didn't mean it in that way. Sorry for making it sound like that; I don't want to just assume those kinds of things. ^^; But anyways, it was no problem.
Chibi-Baka3 posted il y a plus d’un an
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