HELP!!!!!

Honestly? I know toi probably won't want to hear this, but the best thing toi can do is let her go. Let her think what she wants.

I've gone through way too many sucky friendships to be able to spot true Friends and fake friends. If this "friend" doesn't like toi for who toi are and insults toi and says you're "the problem in her life" that's HORRIBLE! Why would toi want ou need a friend like that?

True Friends would never say that to you. Sure they may be angry but real Friends give toi a chance to explain yourself no matter what. This girl didn't give toi any chances. Plus, she's choosing her other friend over you, which hurts, I know. It makes a really strained, dysfunctional relationship when someone comes in the middle but toi can't blame it all on the "other friend." It's your bffs fault just as much so, if not more, for falling under the other friend's influence and totally dissing/ditching you.

Sorry for the cold, hard truth but toi can get so many better Friends that treat toi well. DON'T SETTLE! NEVER SETTLE! I used to, but I've learned from my mistakes and learned to not go back to the people that cause toi heartache and drama baecause they're not worth it at all. I know it sounds cheesy and cliche but it's the truth.

Truly a good true friend would NEVER EVER say anything so horrible, I had kindof the same problem when I moved from America to New Zealand Every one made fun of me, the way I talked mostly, I started to sit with a group that looked friendly enough, then one jour we were talking about what our favourite things were and I a dit I wanted to be a vet, one of the girls, for some reason a dit that I couldn't hang around with them because I was ruining their "social credit". I learned soon learned that I needed to find better Friends then them. Pretend that toi don't care and shrug it off, it's hard, but after a while she will get bored just teasing toi about something that toi don't care about. Good luck and i know toi will find better Friends if toi just keep smiling

Talk to the other friend. Ask what's going on and find out why she's doing this, wether it's on purpose ou because she got the wrong impression of you. If she tells toi off than you'll know who the problem is, and if she realizes that she was wrong than ask her to help toi talk to your friend. If toi can't talk to the other friend than try to get to your friend again. if she won't talk to toi than perhaps she simply wasn't as good a friend as toi thought she was.

I can say that you're friend isn't very nice I mean "the problem in her life"? COME ON! She obviously dosen't want to resolve things.......but that dosen't mean that toi can't montrer a little of that self-defense in you. toi can stand up for your self! Don't let it get to you. And everybody knows that the ones causing problems for someone is plus weak than the victim.(Right now you're the victim.)

i think sara is right. toi need to let her go, if she thinks you're the problem in her life, then just leave it at that. right now, i think you're the good guy right now, just do this: suivant time she calls, make her listen to what toi think of all of this. but if she still hates you, then it's her lost...PS toi sound like a great friend:)