Losing a friend?

I have a very good friend and we've known eachother for a while. Today, my mom told me that she doesn't think that her mom likes me anymore because she's been declining invitations to send my friend over to hang out with me. She told me that this is because I can be very innapropriate at times. I'm going to try my best to be appropriate, but I'm still a little paranoid about what the mom thinks of me. I'm afraid that she'll tell my friend not to hang out with me anymore. What should I do?
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My friend still likes me and sticks to me, par the way. I'm only worried about her mom's reaction.
xxXsk8trXxx posted il y a plus d’un an
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I'm in a similar situation to this question :(
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para-scence said:
Well, if your friend was really your friend, theyd still be your friend no matter what. If not, then theyre probably not a true friend to begin with. Learned from experience.
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My friend is my real friend and she sticks to me. It's her mom that I'm worried about.
xxXsk8trXxx posted il y a plus d’un an
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Well, that's kinda her problem. Not everyone's gonna like everyone. It doesnt matter about her mom. as long as your Friends there for you, toi should be fine.
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BabyBlud said:
I agree with Para, not all friends' parents will like you. Some people just have an instant dislike to people without even getting to know them, and unfortunately there's nothing we can do about these shallow people apart from ignore them.
If you're sure your friend will stick par you, ask if she's willing to allow toi to talk to her mother and sort this out once and for all.
If she's willing, call round and ask politely to speak to her mother, sit down and explain how you're feeling and why and ask whether there is something toi have done that has offended ou upset her in any way. Just say that if there is, toi would like to apologise for it, even though toi didn't mean to as the bitterness between the two of toi is hurting your relationship with your friend and toi are worried about it. Tell her toi value her daughters friendship with toi and would like it to continue for as long as possible.

if she doesn't have what toi think is a valid reason for disliking you, ou doesn't accept your apology, then all toi have to say is fine, i was the bigger person, i came to apologise and toi didn't accept, but i'd still like to be Friends with your daughter and toi can not stop me from talking to her ou helping her out when she needs me to. The calmly walk away, saying to your friend, "i'll see toi at school". Don't forget to thank your friend for being willing about this too, just in case your friend's mother picks up on the little things like that.
Try to keep toi voice calm and at a low level, even if she starts to yell don't yell back. If she won't let toi get a word in edgeways while she's yelling her head off at toi toi have two choices - 1. either get up calmly say i'm sorry i upset toi i'll leave now but i'd still like to continue this when you've calmed down, and then walk away. ou 2- sit the yelling out until she pauses for breath and continue with what toi were saying.
But whether she likes toi after, ou hates toi plus ou even whether she hated toi in the first place and just wants her daughter to stay away from you, the choice is not hers.
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neofly said:
loosing Friends are the worst i would cry if i Lost mine. I say her mom a letter apologizing for anything that may have caused her mom to diss like u. and tell ur friend to give it to her. GOOD LUCK
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sehdt said:
Ok thats not an easy problem to solve. Personnaly I think I would go and see the parent of your friend and ask what she feels toi have done to deserve this. Take your mum with toi for moral support. I would think in her eyes toi must of done something terrible. Find out and if toi can explain why what ever it was happened and promise her that toi have ou will try your best to change and that having your friend her child is important and may help toi in the end. Oh yes and from this adult to toi if ever someone says it gets better once toi are an adult don't believe them my mother is still on my case and I am 36 mind toi I do still live at accueil but it is highly annoying. Anyway good luck.
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