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BabyBlud said:
I agree with Para, not all friends' parents will like you. Some people just have an instant dislike to people without even getting to know them, and unfortunately there's nothing we can do about these shallow people apart from ignore them. If you're sure your friend will stick par you, ask if she's willing to allow toi to talk to her mother and sort this out once and for all. If she's willing, call round and ask politely to speak to her mother, sit down and explain how you're feeling and why and ask whether there is something toi have done that has offended ou upset her in any way. Just say that if there is, toi would like to apologise for it, even though toi didn't mean to as the bitterness between the two of toi is hurting your relationship with your friend and toi are worried about it. Tell her toi value her daughters friendship with toi and would like it to continue for as long as possible. if she doesn't have what toi think is a valid reason for disliking you, ou doesn't accept your apology, then all toi have to say is fine, i was the bigger person, i came to apologise and toi didn't accept, but i'd still like to be Friends with your daughter and toi can not stop me from talking to her ou helping her out when she needs me to. The calmly walk away, saying to your friend, "i'll see toi at school". Don't forget to thank your friend for being willing about this too, just in case your friend's mother picks up on the little things like that. Try to keep toi voice calm and at a low level, even if she starts to yell don't yell back. If she won't let toi get a word in edgeways while she's yelling her head off at toi toi have two choices - 1. either get up calmly say i'm sorry i upset toi i'll leave now but i'd still like to continue this when you've calmed down, and then walk away. ou 2- sit the yelling out until she pauses for breath and continue with what toi were saying. But whether she likes toi after, ou hates toi plus ou even whether she hated toi in the first place and just wants her daughter to stay away from you, the choice is not hers.
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