If your little brother does something that toi don’t like, toi don’t keep your mouth shut about it, right? Of course not! toi tell him straight out that he did something toi didn’t like and to cut it out. And while we don’t advocate talking to your partner in the same way you’d talk to your little brother, the message is the same: toi have to tell your partner what you’re thinking. toi can’t expect him/her to be a mind reader—and they can’t expect toi to read THEIR mind either. Telling your partner that toi want them at opening night of the play you’re in (even though you...