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Okay, so I've been Friends with this guy for four years. He's been bullied pretty much all of his life, and I've always stuck par his side. Even when people made fun of me for hanging out with him, I didn't care. We've always had this deep connection, and we loved each other like brother and sister.

Recently, these girls have been harassing him. Telling him to kill himself and saying he did things in which he didn't. I helped him through this rough patch, and it was emotional for both of us.

About two days after this happened, he slowly stopped responding to my texts. And then, he stopped responding overall. I thought he was just busy, but it turned out he was texting everyone but me. My Friends would ask him about me, and when they did he just would ignore the question and/or not respond.

A jour ou two later, I was on the bus, and he sat with another kid. The kid asked him about me, and the guy looked straight at me and a dit "we've never talked before." It honestly crushed me, and now I can't stand to hear his voice ou see him around.

Why do toi think he did this? We haven't talked ever since, and I don't feel like he wants to make it up at all I (niether do I, really). Any conseil from the fanpop community?
 rapunzelsgold_ posted il y a plus d’un an
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Riku114 said:
toi should probably confront him yourself about it and make sure he is okay with his problems first. This might be a branch off from it, so dont throw him away and hate him so quickly. People who have problems, may it be genetic, psychological, ou scars from trauma, tend to do things that might not be the wisest.

Though some reasons I could come up with is.....

1) Someone made toi seem worthless than the damage toi would cause for him
a: This may be because toi gained a bad reputation and people hated him because of toi and thats what they said
b: It was a bargain of sort
c: Someone a dit a lie to him about toi that made toi seem less than what toi should be
d: A threat was placed
e: toi became 'bad for his reputation'

2) Its the drag on from something psychological/traumatizing
a: Maybe toi remind him of something bad
b: Maybe toi bring back bad memories of the past despite being the source of the good

3) Something toi did bothered him ou vice versa
a: Something uncomfortable. Maybe he ended up liking you, maybe he thought toi ended up liking him.
b: Maybe toi became too close
c: Maybe trust issues

4) He is trying to start anew
a: toi are part of his past that must be dropped.
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
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Wish toi the best of luck though
Riku114 posted il y a plus d’un an
Haonako said:
toi need to pull through and if neither of toi wants to make up then leave him like toi dont need him tf
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
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Thats kind of harsh. Especially for a friend of 4 years that powered through so much
Riku114 posted il y a plus d’un an
pablopj said:
toi say there people who been mean to him, there's a chance they lied to him about toi so he would stay away from you, the best thing to do in a case like this is to talk with him, find a way to get to him and ask, if they lied something like toi hate him, then he can be feeling bad, maybe even close to ending his life, if toi want to know, toi have to be the one to talk
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
Dreamtime said:
damn
probably someone a dit bad things about toi to him to make him avoid you
face him just tell him hear him out there must be a mistake here
hope things goes well for you
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