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Is it okay to not have a boyfriend ou even a crush on a boy at my age?

I'm 14 and already in high school. And I've noticed something, pretty much everyone is either crushing ou being crushed(HA! Justin likes Valerie XD).

Why hasn't this sort of stuff been happening to me yet?

The only thing close to that is way back in the 4th grade and a boy was all flirty to me and stuff....OH WHY DIDN'T I UNDERSTAND l’amour BACK THEN! WE COULD HAVE BEEN TOGETHER!!! ....wow soupe opera much... -.-


Anyway,,,can anyone tell me why this "love" is taking way too long >-< *getting pissed*


 NoahFanNumber1 posted il y a plus d’un an
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Vixie79 said:
Yes, it's okay not to be crushing on anyone at your age ou dating anyone either. There isn't any rules pertaining to when toi should ou shouldn't anyway, it's up to you. You're still young, toi should go out and have fun and be yourself. Don't worry about guys and don't try to be pressured into thinking your strange about not having feelings for anyone. It's not important, it will come naturally to toi later and if not, that's still okay too.
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
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Great answer. I agree.
Moonbeam1953 posted il y a plus d’un an
Heartisalone said:
You're probably just not attracted to any of the boys around you.
I think it's good not to start too much l’amour and romance in school and wait until your done.
toi can focus plus on your work.
And plus the whole Boyfriend/Girlfriend thing in school usually doesn't last too long...
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
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true, true. thanks
NoahFanNumber1 posted il y a plus d’un an
TotalDramaChick said:
Of course. It's absouluty okay. When I was in 5th grade i didn't like ANYBODY. My Friends would say " Whats wrong with so and so loves toi soo much and toi don't like him back???" .. Now I'm your age and i'm going into my sophmore year. (that dosen't have to do with anything xD) Well maybe you're just not ready, ou maybe your scared people are gonna find out who toi like, ou nervous your gonna get made fun of. I don't know. Well hope this works out soon. :)
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
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I also agree with Heartisalone too. I think mine dosen't make any sense..
TotalDramaChick posted il y a plus d’un an
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^I like both :) thanks
NoahFanNumber1 posted il y a plus d’un an
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You're welcome :)
TotalDramaChick posted il y a plus d’un an
deathroman13 said:
You're only 14 so don't worry.

I have the same and I'm almost 17.
I do hang out a lot with boys but I don't have a crush and I'm not in love.
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snapeislove said:
Well, I don't think it's normal (as the whole world thinks) but I am 17 and I don't have a crush at the moment.

If it comes, it does. Keep that in mind. :D
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sehdt said:
We all do things at different rates. I am 36 had boyfriends in the past. But not any plus I do have friendships with boys and men and I do have a crush but I am not in love. Unless toi are one of those to whom it never happens but even if it is its toi and your life so dont worry just be you. Otherwise I am sure it will happen.
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almuno01 said:
Dont worry MDR same here but don worry u still haave your whole life to find someone
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iluvsmj said:
well ur in highschool so yeah toi can date.
14 idk toi should wait til 16
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CornChips said:
It's fine, there's no rule that says toi have to have a crush on someone. I wish I was like toi at the moment, I got a crush that I want to go away now MDR xD
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
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Thats hard when toi can not get them out of your head.
sehdt posted il y a plus d’un an
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Very true .__.
CornChips posted il y a plus d’un an
wierdgem7 said:
It's totally fine. I'm single, and I find it can help because toi can discover yourself, and be independent. Stay focused on toi and YOUR dreams. Anyway, some of these crushes can get SERIOUSLY messed up. If toi like someone and they don't like toi back, that is sooooooooooo embarassing.
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xVanilla-Saltx said:
It's perfectly fine. I'm happily single, too - and not interested in dating right now. Sometimes, the people who toi can have crushes on aren't really all that desirable. At this age there will still be a lot of immature boys, and toi should feel proud that toi haven't jumped into the dating pool just because everybody else has. It makes no difference in who toi are, ou your self-worth. It's extremely normal; some people don't even start dating until after college. I wouldn't worry about it - let nature take it's course and you'll find the one who toi are meant to be with, opposed to forcing yourself to do what's considered 'normal' par your peers. Enjoy the freedom of being single; there are things that toi won't be able to do when you're in a relationship! It's perfectly normal. Good luck.
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rkz18 said:
It's totally natural to not be attracted to boys. Most women aren't. toi probably won't start liking these "boys" until they turn into "men". And puberty is not over yet for you, try time learning who toi are. This is a wonderful time, where toi actually have the time to learn about yourself. Males take way to much time.
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Brittanagleefan said:
Yes. But people are always jouer la comédie like it's impossible not to have a crush on anyone, it sucks.
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