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TheLefteris24 said:
These are my Scores:
9 for Words of Affirmation
Actions don’t always speak louder than words. If this is your l’amour language, unsolicited compliments mean the world to you. Hearing the words, “I l’amour you,” are important— hearing the reasons behind that l’amour sends your spirits skyward. Insults can leave toi shattered and are not easily forgotten. toi thrive on hearing kind and encouraging words that build toi up.
6 both for Quality Time and Receiving Gifts
a) In Quality Time, nothing says “I l’amour you” like full, undivided attention. Being there for this type of person is critical, but really being there—with the TV off, fork and couteau down, and all chores and tasks on standby—makes toi feel truly special and loved. Distractions, postponed activities, ou the failure to listen can be especially hurtful. Whether itʼs spending uninterrupted time talking with someone else ou doing activities together, toi deepen your connection with others through sharing time.
b) Don’t mistake this l’amour language for materialism; the receiver of gifts thrives on the love, thoughtfulness, and effort behind the gift. If toi speak this language, the perfect gift ou gesture shows that toi are known, toi are cared for, and toi are prized above whatever was sacrificed to bring the gift to you. A missed birthday ou a hasty, thoughtless gift would be disastrous—so would the absence of everyday gestures. Gifts are heartfelt symbols to toi of someone else's l’amour and affection for you.
5 for Acts of Service / Kindness
Can helping with homework really be an expression of love? Absolutely! Anything toi do to ease the burden of responsibilities weighing on an “Acts of Service” person will speak volumes. The words he ou she most wants to hear: “Let me do that for you.” Laziness, broken commitments, and making plus work for them tell speakers of this language their feelings don’t matter. When others serve toi out of l’amour (and not obligation), toi feel truly valued and loved.
4 for Physical Touch
A person whose primary language is Physical Touch is, not surprisingly, very touchy. Hugs, pats on the back, and thoughtful touches on the arm—they can all be ways to montrer excitement, concern, care, and love. Physical presence and accessibility are crucial, while neglect ou abuse can be unforgivable and destructive. Appropriate and timely touches communicate warmth, safety, and l’amour to you.
That's it, pretty much.
What I want to say is that it was an expected result but at the same time, I got myself surprised concerning the order of some since there are those that I personally feel myself placing on a higher value than the way these Scores indicate...
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