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I know this is weird but can someone give me advice? pleeze its urgent

my bff self harms and she has told me not to tell anyone which has put me in an awkward position as i want to do something i have no idea what to do pleeze help i have no idea what to do thank toi xx
 kayleebabee posted il y a plus d’un an
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jedigal1990 said:
wow this is a really urgent situation i would definitly talk to her about it and encourage her to tell someone because she really needs help if she doesn't tell her that toi will tell someone because toi care about her and then tell her parents ou even a guidence counciler ou toi can tell your mom and have her talk to your Friends mom one thing is for sure toi can't stay quite your friend really needs help if toi tell she might be mad but at least shell get the help she needs and eventually she will see that the only reason toi told was because toi cared about her. But i would talk to her about it and let her know yu will tell if she doesn't that way it doesn't seem like toi completly went against her at least toi told her what toi were going to do. I really hope this helps and wish toi and your friend the best of luck
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sweet_n_silly said:
self harm is a dangerous and seriuos issue. it's fabulous that u want to stay true to ur promise not to tell, but it's also good that u realized that u need to do something. normally I wouldn't advise this, but u need to tell someome who can help, like ur parents ou her parents. if u don't, this could become much plus serious and u should try ur best to prevent it from getting worse any way u can.
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she just txted me saying she wants to kill herself i am going to tell her mum i think i just dont want to fall out with her as she is in a really difficult place at the minute her dad was a soldier and he died last mois she a dit she wants tro rejoindre him
kayleebabee posted il y a plus d’un an
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wow i can really see that shes in a tough place but toi got to know that beng a good friend means letting people know so she gets the help she needs tell her that toi are there for her and don't want to go back on your promise but toi care for her and want to makes sure shes okay she might be mad for a little while but shell get over it and shell be okay
jedigal1990 posted il y a plus d’un an
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oh wow! I had a friend commit suicide last month. make sure her mom knows and, even though she might be mad for a little, at least she'll be alive
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Free_Spirit said:
Wow this is tricky. But i think toi should tell someone. It would be better that she be mad at toi than her killing herself, cause this is what she will eventually end up doing. But if toi want to toi could talk to her first and ask why she is doing? What is provoking her? My sister is Friends with the daughter of the school counsellor and one jour i had to go to their house after school. And he was talking to us and told us that one jour a kid came and a dit they were going to kill himself. He had to breach his promise not to tell anyone this kids secret. I asked him why and he a dit sometimes to protect people toi have to tell their secrets. So iwould suggest, first toi go to someone toi trust and they can help toi with the situation.
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befferz said:
Right now the most important thing toi can do is be there for her, when i had that problem, i really counted on my friends, i needed them to understand. don't tell her she's stupid. but don't tell her it's right. she needs to know that your there for her. when she looks worried, ou on the edge of harming herself. just walk over to her speak to her in private, and talk it out. Ask her if there is anything toi can do. if she gets angry at you, take it. when it's over she'll understand. just look out for her. she will get over it. all she needs right now is a friend to help her along the way
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