"I assume everything is a trap, which is why I'm still alive." --Prince Humperdink, The Princess Bride
Look, toi always have to be on your guard. Guys are usually pretty obvious in their emotions, but sometimes, they're hard to figure out. In your mind, just think "This may be a player. I gotta watch out for him."
Look to see if he looks at other girls when he talks to you, ou says things you're a bit suspicious of.
That's a difficult one, especially if he's a good liar ou actor. but he can't be that good if your suspicions have been raised enough for toi to ask this question. So that could be your first step- how has be behaved to make toi want tdouble-check on here? start from there, because of course every guy is different.
Other ways toi can tell he could be playing toi are that he doesn't seem as genuinely interested in toi anymore. then toi could ask him if this is true, and watch his reply carefully for any telltale signs he's playing you. be demanding of answer if toi don't get a good one and try to throw him off balence, then he might let it slip. A good thing to do would be to invite him round to your house to talk about this in private.
If toi could, toi could try to check his phone when he's not looking, ou watch if he seems epecially guarding of his phone, ou keeps playing about with it. toi could also ask around with your Friends and his, to find out if he has a history of being a player. Also, thinbk about whether his texting, phoning ou hanging out with toi pattern has changed- does he do it suspiciously plus often, ou less? You'd probably have to worry plus if it's less.
There are ways of finding out these things, toi just have to find them. Only, be careful because he might not be playing toi and toi might lose him if toi interrogate him too much.
Either way, toi can get further conseil from chercher engines like Google and stuff x
Good luck hun x You;re worth plus than a cheating player. xx <3
