my bf gave a girl a note and he a dit he liked her i asked him why and he a dit it was a dare. who should i be mad at the guy who dared him to do it ou my bf???

Your boyfriend. It was his decision to act on the dare, don't get mad at the guy that dared.
That's a jerky déplacer on your bf's part. Ask him if winning the dare was worth your anger towards him.

No need to get mad at the guy who dared him to do it, he's not your boyfriend, and shouldn't have a part to play in your relationship. It was immature, yes, but although he ancouraged it, he does no have control over what your boyfriend does. Your boyfriend didn't have to act on the dare, he could have been responsible and a dit no, regardless of what his Friends would think.

Whether you're mad him ou not, and are going to take it seriously, is up to you.

First find out if he was actually dared. People use the excuse 'Someone dared me to!' a lot.
I'm sorry- but maybe your bf actually likes that girl. I'm sure if he was loyal and liked toi a lot, he wouldn't accept dares like that.

find the dude who dare him if u can't then he maby lieing u should par one of those lie detector to find out the truth

Well, just don't do anything stupid and toi should be fine.

And yes, stupid includes blaming someone before toi talk.

Try talking to your boyfriend and see who dared him. Then talk to that person. Then toi should talk to the girl, if toi need to after that. Once toi get your evidence together, either be mad at the darer if it really was a dare (because he probably knew toi were his girlfriend in the first place, ou your boyfriend a dit something but was pressured into it. Boys are plus prone to peer pressure than girls because, whether they want to hear it ou not, their popularity is just as important to them as it is to us girls. Plus they really don't like being called chicken ou weak), ou if toi confront who your boyfriend says dared him and he says he didn't dare him after an extensive period of making sure he's telling the truth, then toi have right to be mad at your boyfriend for the note issue and also for lying about it :)

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u shld be mad at him for taking the dare if he really loved u he wld have never taken the dare!!