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Is there something wrong with me?

MY family doesnt aprovw of my l’amour for mj.they say it is an unhealthy obsession.So the other jour i went and tried to buy the mj vision and My brother a dit " No plus mj stuff,you are to obsessed" That hurt and I am thinking hard on this one.I can see no wrong in mj. I think hes better than my own family.I would die for him. Is there soemthing wrong with me,because its tearing me apart,but I know that no matter what anybody sais, I cant... no i wont stop loving him
 mjrocks13 posted il y a plus d’un an
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lucaslover528 said:
Sweetie don't worry about it. I sometimes feel that Michael is the only one there for me too. On a lot of occasions I feel that he's the only one that listens to me, understands me.

I can see why you'd sometimes think that Michael's better for your happiness, believe me I do. I can name numerous times when I felt like saying, "I've had enough. Michael, take me with you." I can relate with toi there. Michael isn't there to judge and he isn't there to disagree. Perhaps that's what makes it so simple to think that he's the only thing that keeps toi going...

Try to realise that your family are always there for toi in physical form. MJ's there for toi in spiritual form. But your family will be par your side forever.
There's nothing wrong with you. I can see that toi truly l’amour him, but don't let that blind toi from the people that will be there with toi at the end of the day.

Hope this helps.
L.O.V.E
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
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God, you're like the MJ shrink! :P gr8 answer
eken posted il y a plus d’un an
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MDR thanks! ;)
lucaslover528 posted il y a plus d’un an
WithAChildHeart said:
Not in the least. Many MJ fans of our generation have witnessed that, I don't exclude myself. You're perfectly fine.

The matter is that a lot changed since our parents were in our age and what we are now. When our parents were a fan of someone they really admired them. This is not the case with us anymore, because the things we fancy are a "phase" and come and go. Well, not always, of course, but most of the time, especially with younger children. E.g. an eight-year old is a fan of Hannah Montana and wants everything related to her. After a while this "obsession" fades and she starts liking someone else, this drives parents nuts.

But I do think that you're old enough to say that your l’amour for Michael is everlasting. You're "just" a devoted fan and I think that it's unfair the way your family treats you. Don't be worried, though, this will loosen up very soon! (:
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
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thanks that really touches my cœur, coeur
mjrocks13 posted il y a plus d’un an
zupanic said:
Yes..you are obsessed...we all are obsessed...but I l’amour my obsession:D
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
UmOkayThen said:
There's nothing wrong with you, you're AMAZING! My family makes fun of me for my l’amour for MJ, but they let me get lots of MJ things. I don't think it's fair that toi couldn't get Vision. Like I would seriously buy toi one if I knew toi :)
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
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awww i would buy u one too
mjrocks13 posted il y a plus d’un an
zombiestars said:
have your family ever listen, saw ou know anything about michael but i'm sad 4 u and hope your family understands your Michael obession
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
sunsetdriver said:
Not even. You're perfectly fine. I don't consider that being obsessed,just a devoted fan.
They just don't understand what MJ means to you. Most families are like that.

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PaisleyPark said:
" I think hes better than my own family.I would die for him."

Okay, it is perfectly fine to l’amour MJ...

But loving him plus than your own family?!

That is not normal. I'm sorry.

toi did not know him in real life. This IS an obsession.

I'm not saying this to be mean, but maybe toi should talk to a psychiatrist to see why toi feel this way.
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
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i've been to a shrink it doesnt work nothing does
mjrocks13 posted il y a plus d’un an
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Then that one wasn't right for you, there is plus than one shrink out there. toi just need to find the right one.
PaisleyPark posted il y a plus d’un an
AimieDawn said:
From knowing other fans of Michael, I know they have connections to him par his musique and his love. But toi do have an unhealthy obsession. I don't know how your life with your family is back home, but no matter what, toi should never l’amour anyone plus than your family. Especially someone toi never even knew personally. Michael would disapprove of this, since he loved family very much.

Trust me, I l’amour Michael, I truly do. toi don't have to get every single thing related to him to montrer how much toi l’amour him. It's about love, not obsession ou material things. It comes from the heart, y'know. Listen to his music, defend him, whatever, to montrer your love.

Please get help and try spending plus time with your family. I mean, read with them, ride bikes with them, have family time!

This made me sick.

And it made me feel even plus sick to see how many fans are saying this is perfectly fine. I mean, so toi all approve of loving someone toi never even knew plus than your family? Oh whatever.
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posted il y a plus d’un an 
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Agreed.
PaisleyPark posted il y a plus d’un an
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i understand but my family has never been there for me
mjrocks13 posted il y a plus d’un an
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And toi think Michael would? I'm sorry, he was an amazing human and cared for all his fans, but toi really think he would've picked a aléatoire fan to be there for?
AimieDawn posted il y a plus d’un an
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^ Bit harsh...
lucaslover528 posted il y a plus d’un an
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