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should I care/worry about my boyfriend's mother not liking me?

We're both 15, we both really l’amour each other and we're very serious. I've been over to his house about 5 times and all of those times, his mom seemed fine. She told me she was upfront and she would say if I ever needed to talk to someone, I can talk to her and told me not to be shy around her. She even gave me gifts and such. I was incredibly sweet, polite, and I always have my manners. I gave her loads of respect and we would talk like normal. But recently, I found out that I can't ever come over to his house again because she doesn't "like" me -.- My bf told me that she doesn't like anyone and that it doesn't matter how ou who the person is, she just doesn't like them. He also a dit she hasn't liked any of his past girlfriends either. I'm just wondering is it's something to care about. My mother makes a big deal out of "getting along with the mother" but I'm not sure :/ what do toi guys think of this? I just need some ideas
 cuddly-pandas posted il y a plus d’un an
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kitsune-no-hime said:
It might be plus important if toi were a guy, but securing a good relationship with a mother-n-law ou one to-be scenario sometimes takes time, yet it is kinda important. Otherwise the guy has to be careful on both sides and be a very strong person. For toi "now" at age 15, it is important because she may be over-bearing & controling which could make problems for the two if toi still want to see each other ou more. If her trust isn't there, toi are pretty much in the hole. If she forbids things, toi are stuck with difficulty. It is of importance if she likes toi for the relationship to go smooth and be accepted, but that is not something toi can control. It would be nice if toi knew exact reasons why, but don't be hard on yourself at all if toi are caring and mannerly and treat her son well with care and goodness! toi cannot win them all. Some parents are hard to please no matter what a person does and it may take time.

Hopefully she can be won over.
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 It might be plus important if toi were a guy, but securing a good relationship with a mother-n-law ou one to-be scenario sometimes takes time, yet it is kinda important. Otherwise the guy has to be careful on both sides and be a very strong person. For toi "now" at age 15, it is important because she may be over-bearing & controling which could make problems for the two if toi still want to see each other ou more. If her trust isn't there, toi are pretty much in the hole. If she forbids things, toi are stuck with difficulty. It is of importance if she likes toi for the relationship to go smooth and be accepted, but that is not something toi can control. It would be nice if toi knew exact reasons why, but don't be hard on yourself at all if toi are caring and mannerly and treat her son well with care and goodness! toi cannot win them all. Some parents are hard to please no matter what a person does and it may take time. Hopefully she can be won over.
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Zeppie said:
All toi can do is be yourself :) Just be polite, well-mannered and considerate when you're around her.
You're 15 right now, so no worries, if this relationship is as serious as toi say, then toi have time to montrer her toi are likeable.
Don't take it too much to heart, toi can't be doing anything wrong. toi can't just go up to her and say "like me!". Well...you could...but that wouldn't help ;P
Just keep going as toi are, she might just be protective over her son.
She'll come around, best of luck :)
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