First a rant then my question to anyone that can help.

I'm thinking about taking and expanding my long commentaire link into an article. I'll keep toi posté on that endeavor.

Also, check out stuff published par the Kinsey Institute. They have a lot of information on this subject.

Lastly, and I don't know if this is specifically about choice, but a récent study proves that link. I know, imagine that, it's like proving there's actually a Big Foot! Now all we have to do is capture the elusive bisexual FEMALE and exploit her personal sexual preferences to prove that she exists. *rolls eyes.*

we all strive to find an equal, l’amour is non judgemental, and true love, many would be better off being born blind n mute. people complain and judge for they are not happy unless they can throw a stone,as they too are a tad gay yet are to embarrased. get em drunk,an they will change, yet they will stay closeted. as to sientific proof. if they were naked, they would not bve able to tell who touched them along their groin, they quiver in anticipation, look at rocky horror ,oh do not touch oh do not oh do ohhhhhhh! some people l’amour to put in their opinion,but love, wiow thats powerfull, true love. being gay, is supposed to mean your happy, a tri likes to try, a bi likes both,i l’amour my wife to talk about trying new things,but am wary as honestly i know id enjoy,what my wife provides for us in the name of love.and yes toi are a good person, just fed up with the games and the bullshit,what happened to being gay, has it become plus of a dirtier waord than sex? good on ya. those people dont know any diiferent, let em go , toi are the bigger person, toi will find your equal,happy thoughts, and may peace be with you;-]

Here toi are. I for one dislike when (idiot) people claim sexuality is a choice.

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That whole débats is so pointless. Does it matter if your sexual orientation is a choice? Does that make your orientation less important?

Rather than trying to present your colleagues with a scientific study, I would suggest telling them that that, yes, perhaps homosexuality probably IS a choice. Of course, then so is heterosexuality. And bisexuality. And so on and so forth. There is no "correct" orientation. We simply choose what feels right, based on where we are in our lives. And that's it. They just don't get it because they never had to "choose" to be heterosexual. It was so normalized they never realized there were plus options.

Seriously, though, try not to get into that kind of débats with people. 9 times out of 10, they're not open to having any kind of alternative opinion about anything. Hand them a scientific study, and they'll dismiss it as "bad science." Tell them a personal story, and they'll just insist that you're wrong. They're full of it, so don't waste your time on them.

I've read the book 'Is it a choice, réponses to the most frequently asked questions about gay and lesbian people' par Eric Marcus, it's really good, and it covers EVERYTHING.
It has stuff about: coming out, family roles, politics, and much more, including: How do toi know if you're gay ou lesbian? What should toi do if your child is gay ou lesbian? Do gay parents raise gay children? If toi think a friend is gay ou lesbian, what should toi say? Why do gay men and women want to get married? What does the Bible say about homosexuality?

I got it out from my public bibliothèque (I l’amour the looks on their faces when I get out these books, heehee) so if I were you, I'd check this out. And it IS non-fiction, it's a HarperSanFrancisco book, and it's written par a gay man. I really hope this helped, I hate the idea of toi being harrassed par thos narrow-minded pricks. toi go, honey!

they think my dads bi-sexual (don't ask) and im bi. I didn't choose 2 B. I just noticed 1 jour that i had a desire of both sexes.

They don't understand. Don't worry! People don't always know (Even if they have a briefcase, I just learned that) They "believe" what they want to. But like Heterosexual people. They didn't just choose. They were born like that.