HOW DO I REACT WHEN MY GF SAYS SHES STRAIGHT!?!?!?!

ok so me and my girlfriend have been on and off for sorta the past two yrs. she says bc shes only in l’amour with one girl it makes her straight not bi. what do u think... is she straight ou bi? and how should i react when she says this?
 Hills1021 posted il y a plus d’un an
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Ninja-Kitten said:
Well toi might be the one exception to her normally straight preferences, ou she might be slightly bisexual.

If she's saying it in a way that means she doesn't like toi anymore, I would try to resolve the problem either par talking about it ou breaking up with her if that's the only way.

But if she's saying it in a way that shows she's feeling vulnerable and scared, try and comfort her and help her through it.
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and if she says she still loves me?
Hills1021 posted il y a plus d’un an
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ask in what way she loves you. as a friend ou a stronger l’amour if that makes sense. she might want something new, ou maybe she is just confused. I personally think the fact that she loves toi means she is bi, l’amour takes time no matter who toi are dating, and maybe toi can make her realize that, because loving one girl doesn't make someone (girl) a lesbian either. I hope that makes sense
willowjames posted il y a plus d’un an
Xeginy said:
I can see how this would be confusing. But at the end of the day, your girlfriend defines her own sexuality, on her own terms. She may have a dit that because she is in l’amour with toi (as she said) but feels very little attraction to any other women. It's not uncommon.

As to how toi react...let her define her own sexuality, in her own words. It's not for you, ou anyone else, to do that for her.
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writer67 said:
l’amour is weird, it tests us in oh so many ways, toi have all this want to be happy with an equal,and your cœur, coeur seems to be on a string.allow her to go if toi trully l’amour her,as if toi hold her to tight toi may hurt plus than yourself. be happy toi can talk,even if its trivial,best to be freinds for ever, than someone toi have to walk away from,it hurts,for your cœur, coeur is good, and an equal deserves an equal.chin up, smile toi are a good person,just plus romantic than others, good luck in your endeavours;-]

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