Guys, I've seen a lot of freaking out over the last episode. I think lots of DE fans are worried but I don't see why. For me the nail in the coffin for SE was last episode. Stefan used one of the worst moments in Elena's life against her...just to gain the upper hand on Klaus. I'm not even going to get into what he did and how I feel about it ou even compare it to what Damon did in 2x20. But I get why he tried to do it(he didn't have to do it, he could have returned accueil at the end of 3x09 and not plot his revenge against Klaus, keeping everyone save in the first place. He wouldn't have to save them if he hadn't did this) he had to make Elena's fear believable. But he could have easily sped the car around another road and fed her his blood but no he had convince her he was going to kill her on the bridge where she almost died and her parents did. It was calculated and premeditated, as if he was trying to hurt her in the most emotionally damaging way possible. I a dit I wasn't going to compare this to Damon's actions in 2x20 but I guess I lied:L Damon's actions can't be justified but I understand why he did it. He Lost control and fed Elena his blood recklessly and on impulse. That's the difference between what Stefan did and what Damon did. Stefan thought out what he was going to do, he planned it. Damon (though I don't condone it) Lost control and forgot about the consequences of his actions for a few brief moments. Another difference between what they done? Stefan did it to gain revenge...Damon did it to save Elena's life. So yeah, I do think SE have been ripped to shreds and their 'epic' story is no longer so epic and loving. I'm sure eventually they will get back together but this leads me to the point of this article.
'It's right. Just not right now.'
Damon I could Kiss toi for this statement...okay fine I'd Kiss toi a lot of other reasons too;) So, after the Kiss in 3x10(squeee!) I think we are all ready for DE to just get together already! But we should go along with Damon's words for the rest of TVD.
This is probably unpopular opinion but I do not want DE together, in a relationship anytime soon. I do want them together eventually but I'm trusting the writers right now. Every relationship in TVD has been destroyed eventually and I do not want that to happen to DE. I think the reason DE has had such a build up is because they want DE to last to the very end. Look at Forwood for example: In season 2 they were populaire among fans, they had chemistry, they had build up and had a potentially good story. But once they get together they are torn apart. ou even SE! They were together from the start and many were convinced they would last forever...and they are also ruined and destroyed this season. DE is the one relationship in this montrer that hasn't been ruined yet and toi know why? Because they haven't got together yet. Honestly, I just hope they continue on,grow together, face obstacles together and strengthen their already unbreakable bond. Then the last season, maybe even the last episode, they finally get together officially! I'm not saying I don't want anymore kisses, I'm actually hoping for a passionate Kiss from Elena in this season finale. And I kind of want them maybe to sleep together before they are together at some point...you know what, I don't mind! I'm sure whatever the writers decide to do, it will be perfect.
Finally, we should all be patient. Our couple is the one the writers are taking so much time perfecting, the one they are trying to mould together so that it is shown they are meant to be. Things will come between them, take this rumoured DK sex scene in an up coming episode, but at the end of the jour they will always make it through. They have been through the worst already(Damon snapping Jeremy's neck, IMO) and made it through. So just enjoy their scenes, their build up because 'It's right. Just not right now.'